Does masturbation get better with age?
I'm asking as I'm interested in what you think about this. Does masturbation get better with age?
I've always jerked off since I was a teen and it's a great enjoyment in my life but as I get older (42 now) it's seems even more enjoyable. I think about it so much now days and I give in to it at least twice a day. I find that's very enjoyable and too many is too much. I've eaten a full load of my own cum. :)
What do you think boys and girls, does it better with age? I love it! :)
Better but There's a Balance
I would say yes, I am better at making myself feel good, and more willing to take the time to fully enjoy myself.
Two caveats, though. First, as a circumcised man, the head (glans) of my penis has become less sensitive over the years (I'm in my mid-late 40s). I have changed my technique over the years (much more direct stimulation of the glans), so it hasn't had much of an effect on my self-pleasuring.
Second, especially in the last few years, I find that I can get too much of a good thing. When I was younger, this wasn't an issue; I could masturbate as frequently as I wished (generally 1-2 ejaculations a day most days) and it had no effect on my partnered sex life. Now, I find that if I much time at all masturbating (even if I forego orgasm and ejaculation) I can have some difficulty maintaining a full erection that same day with my wife. Lately I have incorporated a cock ring and more self-pleasuring into our sex life to ensure that we both enjoy ourselves.
Fortunately, we are having a bit of a sexual renaissance recently, so the choice between self-pleasure and partnered pleasure is an easy one (basically I save the jacking off for days when I know we won't be having sex). I find that about 36-48 hours is the optimum interval between sexual acts right now--shorter than that, and I may not stay hard the whole time, longer than that and I get sore balls, or I may have some trouble getting aroused initially.
BTW, she has no such challenge enjoying partner sex and masturbation on the same day, and in fact has been much more open and enthusiastic about her masturbation lately. She can come solo with a vibrator and be hungry for me just a little while later. :)