Forum behavior regarding women here

[Eafie]

nice words tabbi

Ditto.

Everyone that posts pictures/videos here takes that chance of having them posted elsewhere. However, we would like to think that others would have the respect and courtesy of NOT reposting to other sites. It sucks when some jerk that isn't daring enough to post their own photos/videos comes here and takes ours with the intent to redistribute elsewhere. Quite sad and immature.

[spleencage]

Not to be a kill joy, but Id never engage in any type of real time chat here, I have been on the web since 1996 and one thing I have learned 90% of females are really men who get off on that sort of behaviour.

[jackdarippa]

Not to be a kill joy, but Id never engage in any type of real time chat here, I have been on the web since 1996 and one thing I have learned 90% of females are really men who get off on that sort of behaviour.

If you read up on it and do a little poking around, I think you will find that not necessarily the case here. I am sure that there are some guys pretending to be women, but there certainly are tonnes of women here who have been verified to be so.

It may be a good assumption to start with, but the poor assumption might be that women don't also enjoy a site like this.

[Maree]

Not to be a kill joy, but Id never engage in any type of real time chat here, I have been on the web since 1996 and one thing I have learned 90% of females are really men who get off on that sort of behaviour.

I think there are little of both. I bumped into totally opposite, girls that pretend to be guys. Mostly to just be able to not have their inbox filled with PM's every time they log on. As far as what everyone are, that's out in the open. I do not think one should have to prove anything either. So with other words, treat everyone good..male or female

[jzzr]

I think there are little of both. I bumped into totally opposite, girls that pretend to be guys. Mostly to just be able to not have their inbox filled with PM's every time they log on. As far as what everyone are, that's out in the open. I do not think one should have to prove anything either. So with other words, treat everyone good..male or female

Excellent point Maree (who, IMO, is a real female...and you can tell because of the way she posts). I have a good friend who has a profile on here, intentionally ambiguous or male-leaning for that reason.

It's sad, women can have these "dirty" thoughts but they have it so much worse if such thoughts are discovered. If they don't want to be branded a filthy slut etc....it's just not acceptable. A lot of guys on here may not want their membership known elsewhere, but it would be frowned upon even more for women because of this specific fetish focus. Too much to explain, too many arguments to have with people, most of them probably judgemental women who feel betrayed or that a female FF member sets a bad example.

The world is so fucked up with double standards. FF is a place we can let it all hang out, post pics and discuss what we think is hot. It shouldn't be a stressful place to be stalked or judged. We do our best to keep it that way.

[punkvman]

how do you get girls to do facials?

[newexperiences]

This is a note to the guys on here about contacting female FF members, whether via PM, IM, email, or in FF Chat*.

FF is incredibly lucky to have not only lurking, but active, vocal, intelligent, cum-loving female members. This is a pretty rare thing for a porn forum - usually if girls like porn they keep it to themselves, and tend not to go for something as allegedly male-oriented as facial cumshots.

You should refrain from being rude or abusive to any FF member (part of the official rules). But I've been getting complaints from female members about borderline harassment from various male users. So here's a few things to remember:

1. Just because a woman is on FF doesn't mean she's looking for sex.
There are several happily married, non-swinging women here who just like to enhance their sex life by browsing and chatting about sex. Even if they're swingers or single, that still just means they're just here looking to share their mutual sexual interest - not necessarily get a facial from a stranger. Sure, they might want that eventually...but don't assume they are.

2. Just because a woman goes in the FF Chat doesn't mean she wants to "Cyber".
Some people in Chat just like to Chat...sometimes not even about sex. Sure, some women enter Chat just as horny as the next guy, wanting to get worked up with some sex talk. But not everyone goes from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds. The first or second thing to say to a female member in FF Chat should not be "im hard and jerkin right now can i cum on your face?" Especially if they don't know you at all. That kind of thing is really off-putting and can drive women away from even entering Chat.

3. Just as in the real world...NO (or no response) MEANS NO
You can't fault a guy for trying...once. But if you've approached a female FF member and they've ignored you or said "not interested", that's the end of it. Continued contact would be considered harassment and members will contact a Mod or Admin about it.

As a Mod here, I want this place to be cool for both men and women. Without men, there would be no cumshots. But without women, there would be no facials.

*Please note we do not have Chat feature anymore but the same rules apply when contacting OR discussing women.

Thank-You for posting this. More online communities should follow the same path.