Im having a new problem. My woman will let me cum in her mouth byt she acts disgusted and spit it right out. She won't let me cum on her anywhere, I want to facial her.
Im having a new problem. My woman will let me cum in her mouth byt she acts disgusted and spit it right out. She won't let me cum on her anywhere, I want to facial her.
Brian1453 posted a really great response that I think is a great way to handle a situation like this. If she knows that you want to cum on her and she doesn't want to try no matter how much you ask, then there is a strong possibility that her attitude won't change.Originally Posted by Andreas69
Respect is the key
Brian was bang on on this - it's about respect and if your girl is not into having cum on her, it's her right - afterall it is her body and there's nothing you can do about it.
The suggestion about talking to her about it is the best strategy. I started dating a girl a couple of weeks ago and she loves cum in her mouth. But at 37, she had never taken a facial and we talked about it and the other night I gave her her first - three days of waiting and her face was covered. She laughed, enjoyed herself and now she's willing to wear my sperm out in public or on her clothes etc...
The fact is that I meet her needs and she meets mine. It's a two way street and if you want something you should be willing to give something to her.
Just my two cents.
some couples go into relationships explaining their kinks and turn-ons. its a great way to assess compatibility before things get really serious. other couples just end up discovering things together. Mr. Pix and I got lucky that way. he was into facials before we got together but didn't feel comfortable bringing it up until we'd been together a while. on the other hand, he also knew I was very sexually adventurous. honestly, I would have been gung-ho from the start, he was the shy one!
Brian's answer is fantastic. its difficult to change a woman's mind on some sexual kinks, the social knowledge of facials tends to be really negative. unfortunate but true.
just dont pressure her. if you do, you wil most likely fail.
We've gone the other direction
Hiya,
Before we got married seven years ago my wife used to let me come on her face and tits all the time. I kind of realise nowhow hard she was trying to please me as she wasn't really into it and the chances of her letting me do that these days are.....ahem ! Just wish i'd have recorded something back then, but she doesn't really like making amateur porn either (we've only done that once without a facial). Like people are saying, patience, the right mood, and a few drinks...hope springs eternal ! Good luck anyway !
If she is not into it, no amount of; pleading, alcohol, ganja, romantic dinners, holding hands in the park, sweet nothings in the ear, picking up your socks off the floor, offering to do the laundry, raking leaves, making dinner......
She either does it or not, seems to be little in between.
Depends, my ex was good looking but(and i dont disrespect her but it was a fact)wasn't very smart.
Very easy to convince things so when we started our relationship, i watched porn with her and said that was normal, then i said that everything in those movies is what most people do.
So after a few months, anal seks, facials etc. was common practice.
With my new gf, who is like a 1000 times smarter, well that tactic would never work.
But she is someone who likes to experiment now and then(drugs).
I'll stay sober( i hate mind altering substances) but when she took an xtc pil once, well, the seks was hardcore porn sex, finishd by a facial from that time on, she permits it in situations where she herself is in the mood.
So it varies per person, only thing you should never do is using FORCE (physical/mentally) to get what you want, doesnt work.
This guy is bang on. I thought I'd put my two cents in from a girl's perspective. Make sure you focus on what turns her on as well. Perhaps ask if she has any fetishes or anything new she wants to try. Trust and communication is key. Let her know without any pressure what you'd really like to try and then leave it up to her with no pleading and pressure.... She might just need time to think about it. I never wanted anything to do with this site when my man first asked me but he didn't pressure me and I just thought about it myself. Make sure you let her know about the amazing stuff she already does. .. It's a good boost of confidence
Try it first with fake cum
I recommend you to talk to her about a fake facial with fake cum recipes.
That way she will get used to it and eventually let you give her a real one, maybe the first one could be like a test like "tell me if it feels different the fake and the real".
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