Do your friends know?

[izzeps]

I hope there isn't already a thread like that - my search for it wasn't succsessfull

Some days ago a friend came over to watch a basketball-match and as a Student I have to study, sleep and watch TV in the same room.
While we were sitting there my gf came in said hello and then walked to my nightstand and put my two cameras into a drawer.
First my friend said nothing but when she left after a few minutes he laughed and ask why she had to hide the cameras? Of course he could guess but I didn't tell him that we take pictures of her cum covered face :P
but it was quite hot to talk to someone (although we just made some unspecific jokes) about taking some "sexy" pictures.
And then I had a idea for this thread, because

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing?
Do they know you are into facials?
Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?)
And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them?
How did they find out or why did you tell them?

The only one who knows that we are taking pictures of my gfs covered face, is my cousin
and not becuase I told him but because he was using my pc and I forgot delete the wallpaper I used to have at my private PC. -.-
but we never talked about it - he must have seen it, but he didn't even make some jokes (what I propbably would have done if I would be in his postion :P)

[The Rocks]

Yup we definitely have some friends who know what we do. Firstly, it is clear to all of our friends that we are very sexual. We have liberator furniture (look it up) sitting out in the open and we talk dirty all the time when they are around us. They've all seen the furniture, and they've all heard raunchy remarks we've made about each other. But that doesn't necessarily mean they "know what we do". Many of our friends have seen indications of what we do. There have been many occasions when we have been showing them photos on our phones and said "DON'T SCROLL LEFT, DON'T SCROLL RIGHT, JUST LOOK AT THE DAMN PICTURE WE ARE SHOWING YOU!!!" They tend to get the idea that we enjoy taking naughty photos... That said, most of them have no idea what those photos consist of.

We do, however, have a couple of friends with whom we couldn't resist telling some detail to. We have two friends in particular that know the following about us:

1. We take sexy photos and video of ourselves
2. We post many of those photos and videos on an online forum
3. We have enjoyed some threesomes and foursomes with other like-minded people (just started doing this recently...)

As of yet, no one knows specifically that we enjoy facials and cumshots, and no one has actually seen any of our content (unless they happen to be a member of this forum and we have no idea... but then they wouldn't know either because we keep our identities obscured).

[Juliette et Franklin]

We're pretty private about ours, but that's mostly because we don't have a whole lot of close friends in the area. We've moved around a bit, and it gets harder and harder to build friendships that are intimate enough to share that sort of information. That said, we did have a long, alcohol-fueled conversation with our favorite friend couple a while back that went into great detail...but not those details. We told them we take pictures and video sometimes, but not specifically of facials, and didn't show them any. Other than them, I think most people we know would be shocked to find out the things we do, and we're pretty vanilla as things go. We're very open, sexual and interested in experimentation, but so far have settled on pretty much the range of 'normal' things. That said, we would love to have some friends to talk about these things with! That's part of what makes this forum great!

[uncut1974]

A couple family members know (cousins) from house sitting for us while we were gone I left our pc for them to use and yes they saw everything. Co workers as well stumbling across pics on the net commenting they say what kind of stuff I do but we are pretty open its sex everyone does it. Keep a open mind and dont worry about what others think that way when you do get caught it wont be a big deal. keep having fun!

[jameson]

Most of our friends and some of our coworkers know we are pervs and some know about our pics and threesome, moresome activities. However, we don't advertise that we post on twitter or FF. We just don't want that level of scrutiny. If they find it themselves, then all good but we don't feel obligated to point them right towards it all.

Xoxo,

J&s

[ernie2003]

Interesting topic, and some interesting replies already. I'm also very curious what other couples have to say.

For us, I'm afraid, the answer is not real interesting. Nobody we know at this point, family or otherwise, knows we are into taking pictures or facials. I guess that I should clarify that other members here know about us loving facials but if there are members here who we know from outside the forum, I do not know who they are, nor would they realize this is us.

We do have another couple who is very close to us that know we have some kinky tendencies, but no actual details have been shared with them, at least not by me. If Em wanted to let anyone know, I would be ok with it. But, she is worried people would think we were weird or something if we shared details. I guess letting them use their imaginations is preferable for her.

I am extremely curious about couples we know and what they might be into, be it facials, anal, bdsm, swapping, or whatever. I think many people do lots of things other than straight sex, and it would be fun to know what their kinks are. Seems like that is not the kind of question you feel comfortable coming right out asking. You never know what the reaction might be. Maybe a good amount of drinking or something would loosen up everyone enough to get into that type of discussion but it has not happened for us yet. Anyway, I would assume that we are not the only ones in our circle of friends and acquaintances that do facials. I don't think you can tell by looking unless maybe you are together, they disappear for a while, and she comes back with red eyes all of a sudden, or misses some cum in her hair.

I think it would be fun to have discussions about facials etc with friends if we knew they were into it. Who knows, maybe that would lead to sharing pics or even sharing facials. Maybe we should take a chance and bring it up some time. We might be missing a great opportunity.

Can't wait to hear what others have to say, and sorry that our answer is that nobody knows, but at the moment that is the case.

[Juliette et Franklin]

...If Em wanted to let anyone know, I would be ok with it. But, she is worried people would think we were weird or something if we shared details.

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Can't wait to hear what others have to say, and sorry that our answer is that nobody knows, but at the moment that is the case.

That's pretty much the case with us as well. As I said, I would love to have someone to share these things with in conversation, but that's just not what's happening yet.

Once, while we were attending an art/music event that I've described before here, and a friend went on and on about how it was degrading and 'if you love someone, why would you want to cum on her face?'. His diatribe went on for quite a while, and as he spoke I kept very quiet, not knowing how our other friends would react. Juliette was there listening as well. Not only was I afraid of how our friends would act, I didn't know how much she wanted to other people to know about our sex life. I decided that it would be better not to confront the speaker on what I viewed as his narrow views than it would to possibly embarrass Juliette. And I still wonder to this day if the other people there agreed or not. They did all get kinda quiet. Maybe they didn't want to embarrass each other either!

[theoriemeister]

No one knows that I take pix of my gf. I don't share these things with my friends, who tend to be a bit older and more conservative.

Normally I don't not keep those pics on my computer (though I have lately), for fear that someone may see them. Furthermore, there seems to be too many hackers out there who could get into my computer while I'm online if they really wanted to. And I don't want to have my computer die on me (it's already 5 years old) and have to take it someplace and have them discover the pictures--and worse, copy them and post them on the internet. (I have a buddy who does computer work and he tells me about pix he finds on the computers he works on!)

[KingCheeser]

Great thread, and idea for a discussion topic. Interesting in reading stories about this.

An ex of mine had a couple incidents where people found out. One of them seems so far fetched as to not sound believable; but it is true. I'll start with that one. When we started dating, she still lived with her family. We were both in our early 20's; and she was the first girl I got to give facials to regularly. Once I talked her into it, I basically did it to her almost every time for the first few months. When it would get in her eyes, they would get red. So, she would drive home with bloodshot eyes. She told me her little sister asked about her eyes once, and she made something up and didn't tell her what it was. A few months later, her little sister met a guy. She was the type of sister that would tell her older sister everything. She told my gf that her boyfriend wanted to cum all over her face, and finally just did it to her once. My gf seemed to sense her sister had mixed feelings on it; and somehow came around to tell her that she takes facials regularly from me; and then mentioned the bloodshot eyes that her little sister noticed was from that. I actually think her little sister got a bit of a rush from it; whereas my girlfriend was neutral on it, but did it because I liked it.

So then eventually, me and the girl break up. Not long after on NewbieNudes, I see a pic of her little sister with a facial. I didn't mention it to them, because I figured nothing good could come out of that. I would post the pic here, but would feel creepy doing so. It just wouldn't feel right. But, I've seen it more than once on different sites; so I know some of you here who see a lot of the homegrown content that gets circulated have seen it.

The other story involving the same ex: She eventually moved in to her own apartment. Her bed had no headboard; just pillows then wall. Well, the paint on the wall in her apartment bedroom was probably some standard flat paint. So, the usual position she would take facials from me was her laying with her head on a pillow, me straddling her chest, and squirting forward and downward slightly, which led to some overshooting past her head on my biggest first couple shots onto the wall. So therefore with the cheap paint finish on the wall, if you positioned yourself a certain way with her nightstand lamp reflecting light off the wall, you could see "splat" patterns (even after wiping up the cum off the wall) on the wall behind her pillows. Well, her best friend came over and had a sleepover with my girlfriend one night and noticed it. I'm sure they had a conversation about it, but she didn't tell me much of what was said. I think she didn't want me entertaining ideas of her best friend. She didn't even mean to tell me in the first place. It just came out without her thinking once after I had sprayed a shot off the wall and ricocheted onto her forehead; and she was busting my chops over it.

Random facial technique aside, after that and for the sake of her walls, I experimented for a while of giving her facials with my cock directly above her face with the tip pointed straight down raining cum on her face. It made the best aftermath to look at; but other positions with my cock not pointed downward feel better to me. Anyone else like to occasionally experiment with that position?

Beyond those two stories with the same girl, to my knowledge nobody around me and a girlfriend has known.

[DexMandrake]

I did some amateur porn back in the 1990s when I lived in California! Some friends and certain members of my family know about that ... but now that I have a VERY responsible job ... I keep my kink fairly private!