Is there any way to get your girl or wife into giving blowjob or accepting a facial

[Gunslinger-Mike]

I am asking for a friend. I know the laugh is on me but it is true. We are working together in shifts and sometimes when there is a lull we start talking about various things. Some of my colleagues seem to look up to me and ask for advice as I am in my 40s and the “old man” in their eyes.

He asked if he should marry his long time girlfriend as everything was fine but one thing: She is absolutely not into his cock. They are having sex in various ways and she is giving him handjobs, but his cock is not allowed to come close to her face or mouth. He is allowed to cum on her belly, tits, ass and back, but everything up her breasts is strict off-limits.

I do not know if there is any realistic chance to “train” or convince a woman to give a blowjob or receive a facial. I am aware that normally talking to each other is the key, and that rushing or pushing things is a no-go.

Over the years I got the impression that a girl or woman is enjoying a blowjob and allowing a facial from the beginning, or she never will.
What do you thing, what have you learnt and what did work out in your case, what didn’t?

I don’t think there is any use in discussing the question if a man should marry a woman who is not giving blowjobs and/or accepting facials anyway.

[SimonKemp]

Maybe show her clips of girls that are really enjoying getting cum on their face and of course show her all the research about how good it is for the complexion

[marriedman1]

Yes. And it also helps doing your own tests🤣

[Gunslinger-Mike]

I had a talk to a long-time friend, a woman I went to school with 25 years ago, we are close and can talk about a lot of things, although we never had sex together. I have been very tempted a few times, but she says it would ruin our friendship, and she is propably right.

I just asked her. She did not have any adivce or tricks.

She told me she had partners she liked to blow, swallow and receive facials, and others she didn't. But she also told me something that had happend to her before: One long-time friend once came up with a wish while he was quite drunk: would she drink his sperm from a glass? She had never thought about something like this and didn't think it would be sexy or fun in any way, she almost told him to drink his own sperm from a glass first and the go to hell. They changed the subject and he never came up with this wish again.

A few months later when they were on holidays she gave him a handjob, stopped, got a glass from the minibar, made him cum into the glass, performed a short striptease, knelt before him and drank the glass.

She said it was not a big thing for her, although she didn't like the strong taste that obviously was even increased by drinking the sperm from a glass. But by the way he looked and the erection he got she could tell that it meant the world for him.

He never asked her to do it again. Obviously he had experienced what he needed to: Seeing a woman drinking his sperm from a glass. And he was happy.

She said when it comes to receiving sperm it all depends who's jizzing on you, not where.

It doesn't help my friend, but I think it clearly shows what the whole issue is about.

[Dimmesdale]

I do not know if there is any realistic chance to “train” or convince a woman to give a blowjob or receive a facial. I am aware that normally talking to each other is the key, and that rushing or pushing things is a no-go.

Over the years I got the impression that a girl or woman is enjoying a blowjob and allowing a facial from the beginning, or she never will.
What do you thing, what have you learnt and what did work out in your case, what didn’t?

My wife learned both how to give a blowjob - she clearly didn’t know when we first got together and was open that she generally refused to give them - and how to take a load in her mouth as well as taking a facial; she teases/flirts with me that I trained her. That turns me on, especially since I secretly, in a fantasy sense, consider her my own personal and private blowjob whore since she essentially traded giving blowjobs for formal commitment.

She still doesn’t like them, but she loves me, and I was clear about my needs both when we first got together and before we got married. She kept her word and has pretty much told me she considers giving them her duty as my wife. I don’t get as many as I want, and a spontaneous or more passionate blowjob would be nice, but I love her too, so I deal with the sexual frustration, which I consider is my duty as her husband.

[TheMasterBlaster]

The best advice I can provide, at least from a relationship standpoint, is to ask early. Get a girl comfortable with giving blowjobs and taking facials, since the more "normal" it becomes the easier it is. Its like riding a bike, right?
With my wife, she received her first facial from me only after a couple of months of dating. NEVER had cum on her face before that (19 at the time). We've been together for years now, and facials are like a regular thing because I've always made her feel comfortable and appreciated for letting me do it.