Maybe try to compromise with her to make her feel more comfortable. In my situation, my wife doesn't like cum getting in her eyes, so I asked her if she would wear sunglasses or a blindfold when I give her facials. That way her eyes are protected and I still get to cum on her face.
My first girlfriend swallowed initially every time we had sex because of her mother’s preventative suggestion. I enjoyed immensely looking at facial pictures and developed a desire of trying out. My girlfriend found my porn magazines which pictured mainly sperm covered faces and she wasn’t surprised when I asked her “Can I cum in your face as well?” and I did but she didn’t like it at first and I had to apologise. But eventually, she asked me for a facial because she knew it made me happy and she didn’t feel ashamed anymore.
I would be personal happy when my girlfriend accepts occasionally a facial…
While eating her pussy, make her cum and squirt on your face and in your mouth while you beg for it. Show her how hot it is, and not degrading, when someone wants you to cum all over their face.
Originally Posted by justforme11
Obviously she doesn’t enjoy them as much as you, my lady loves them more than I do the love she has for me is why she loves them so much even if she hated them she would still do it , maybe you need a conversation about them and hear what she thinks
I agree with most of what has been said. The main thing is to focus on fulfilling your wife's needs outside of the bedroom.
One thing that I have had some success with in the past is to tell the woman that I'm with that I had a fetish about cumming on a certain object or aspect of her face. For example, everyone knows that facials are a thing in porn and a certain percentage of women find them degrading. I've no idea what that percentage is or whether it's higher in older women vs younger women who have grown up with the internet and for whom porn-sex has become normalized.
But although every woman know that the concept of facials is a porn inspired thing, I used to tell women that I have a fetish about cumming on her lipstick. I've also told them that I have a fetish about coming on her sunglasses. Both are true of course but the bigger reality is that I have a facial fetish and the fact that the cum may get on her lips/lipstick is only a part of the larger fetish.
Never-the-less, it did work at times. Because I think the 'cum on her sunglasses while she's wearing them' fetish seemed unique to me and not necessarily porn influenced, the woman's natural 'facials-are-degrading' impulse didn't seemed triggered.
Of course if you're going to ejaculate over her lips or sunglasses, the cum will get everywhere anyway. At any rate, asking to cum on her lipstick or lip gloss I guess doesn't seem as personal. So it has worked a few times with women in my past who weren't comfortable with facials but didn't seem to have the same objection or problem with the cum target being less personalized: ie, lipstick or sunglasses.
(By the way, it is true that when I was about 15 or 16 I was in a restaurant and there was a couple sitting a few tables from me. She was drinking hot chocolate with whipped cream or a foamy milkshake. They were being sexually flirtatious with each other and either he or she--I can't remember which--was being sexually suggestive by putting the cream on her lips and she would suggestively lick it off. Then they'd giggle and do it again. Watching it was so fucking sexy for my horny teenage mind and that incidence was probably a big factor as to why I developed such a cum facial fetish.
Fast forward to adulthood and I often have told that story to girls I was with to explain why I had a 'cum on lipstick' fetish. There's truth in that. But I think that story made my desire to cum on her mouth more natural and innocent. You're free to use that story if you want!)
My wife was conditioned by her ex and first love who simply refused to give her his cum, saying she wasn't good enough for it. He was very dominant and verbally abusive. Actually, he wasn't a nice guy, but she was totally into him at the time.
He would only pull out after making her cum and then on his own, cum on the floor and tell her that if she wanted his cum she could lick it up. She developed an insatiable appetite to be cummed on and in to complete the sex act. Her ex had left her feeling anything less was a failure.
Other than a good fucking, facials and bukkake are her deepest desires.
I don't suggest trying to take such an approach with your wife or girlfriend. We've had a lot to untangle from past abuse and all but at least when it comes to entbusiasm for facials we are on the same page.
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