Why is it so hard?

[yogihx]

I dont know if you guys have the same feeling, but for me, seems like its impossible to find couples who share the same 'hobby' we do. Been on this forum for so long that I cant even remember, also on reddit and fetlife. Yet, been able to find less than 10 couples with the same passion. Feels like nowadays everyone shooting facials does it only for money (onlyfans and all the other paid sites).

We have more than 200 recorded facials in our 10+ years or relationship. For obvious reasons we wont post them online, but would love to swap with other couples. What happened with the amateur couples, with people shooting for fun?
Why do we have so many fakes and pic collectors?

[jmacross]

Oh bro I got you.. it is the same here, just the same feeling that you have. Please feel free to contact me, willing to trade stuff without any edition I use whatsapp or mail for that.

[phallusfan]

That's what she said.
(Someone had to say it.)

[bluedancer]

Seems like it used to be much easier before the social media sites that allowed x rated stuff (tumblr in the past, now reddit). the internet is so saturated with amateur porn including facials that genuine couples into more one-on-one sharing are so much harder to find. not only that, but i suspect that stricter revenge porn laws have scared away a lot of people

[TheMasterBlaster]

I dont know if you guys have the same feeling, but for me, seems like its impossible to find couples who share the same 'hobby' we do. Been on this forum for so long that I cant even remember, also on reddit and fetlife. Yet, been able to find less than 10 couples with the same passion. Feels like nowadays everyone shooting facials does it only for money (onlyfans and all the other paid sites).

We have more than 200 recorded facials in our 10+ years or relationship. For obvious reasons we wont post them online, but would love to swap with other couples. What happened with the amateur couples, with people shooting for fun?
Why do we have so many fakes and pic collectors?

I've spent a lot of time on Fetlife, and found a few good facial cumshot enthusiasts, but otherwise that site is toxic. Reddit has a solid community of facial lovers, but there's a LOT of Onlyfans promotion and I don't pay for Onlyfans.

[* pierre *]

My guess is that there are many more couples that are going the money way. With so many ny places to earn money from your homemade movies I think instead of sharing privately like in the old days these couple say why not get some money. Also its probably more likely that it has become more common and well seen.

Pierre

[Pierrotlefou]

We have same issue and same ideas why too : onlyfans and such made the friendly free pic and vids swap / sharing / showing from a couple to another almost disappear

everything seems to be for money now, instead of just ... i dont know... Just sharing things we like or sharing ourselves with others for the sake of it.

it s quite saddening really

[HerFH]

For some its the fear of being recognized... Its scary to share with how big the www has become.

[Gunslinger-Mike]

It is as you all say. Onlyfans and sites like that changed the original idea and spirit when couples liked to shoot pictures and even short clips and share them.

I can understand that some couples want to make money with their stuff. Life has become more and more expensive for most of us, and the technical equipment does cost money.

Sadly I often get the impression that money is ruining the fun of it. 15 years ago when you got your hands on an amateur facial clip you felt that the emotion and reaction was real. You could feel that the woman really liked and enjoyed it, or that she was surprised by the cumshot, sometimes she even showed real dislike. With the sites like Onlyfans the “moneyshot” entered the amateur scene. Viewers demand the facial cumshot, so they get it, regardless of the true emotions the woman may feel about it.

I know a couple that shared their work years ago but has stopped. They said there are various reasons they stopped. They grew older and she does no longer like to show her aging body. They also say they sense some kind of overkill. 10 years ago they received nice comments and some of their viewers were delighted about details like her outfit or the way one of her breasts hung out, how the sperm had collected in the cup of her bra or that nice cum streak on her eyebrow. Today most people would rant if she didn’t receive and swallow ten cumshots, calling it “fucking lame fuck” or her an “ugly bitch”. The tone got more rough and viewers tend to feel save in the anonymity of the internet, showing little respect.

Maybe I am ranting too much, maybe I am just wrong. It is just my feelings about it. I am getting older and thus tend to whitewash the past. There are great couples on sites like Onlyfans, and the quality of the stuff available is much better – at least in technical terms – than it was 10 to 20 years ago.