Helping my missus out but getting stuck

My girlfriend isn't a facial taker or a swallower so I've been coming up with ideas to do things differently. I also have a problem of no one has ever made me cum by blowjob.

I've been looking at a few types of videos for us both to watch while she is sucking me off but it's proving annoying.

1. Videos of a blowjob where there is a definite pull away for the cumshot, but not a scared pull away.

2. A fantasy that we are looking to actually do is two women giving me a blowjob, but I cannot find any videos where the women don't touch each other. My girlfriend has no interest and neither do I in that (it's all about ME!!)

3. Same as above but involving sex itself.

Anyone got some links for these?