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Seems nearing mainstream sometimes. Do you guys/gals think facials are pretty common now where they were taboo some years back. My more recent relationships were hit and miss with facials. Some gals NEVER, Some gals say bring it on. Crazy, the bring it on gals are the ones that eventually end the relationship, so the hurt is so compounded knowing the X is getting facialized, and it's not me doing it. arrgghhhh .. I need a new gal that loves facials, but don't we all )
Great discussion topic! Here's been my experience with facials.
I have kept my own "historical records" of this. I have had sex with 68 women; 48 of them took a load in the face. I've pretty much found that there have been no trends in terms of less women in the 00's taking them than in the '20s, for instance. 20 of them have let me video the facial.
I've strongly suspected that a lot of women have told me they've never taken a facial before me are lying about it; but really that's what I would get for asking. It's hard to describe how you can tell if they've taken a facial; it's just a sixth sense. But a couple of them have been good about assuming the position on their knees, and positioning their head pretty accurately for their face takes the the shots. I would think most newbies would be too timid for that. I honestly get super turned on if the woman is like, "Yeah, I've taken a fair/good amount of facials before". But women tend to be pretty coy about it for the most part. On the one hand, it really is none of my business if they have if they aren't comfortable telling me; on the other hand if it really is your first time, it's good to know to help you through it and be more communicative so you can be more comfortable.
I haven't found a pattern in my experience one way or another of women who are enthusiastic about facials being the ones that end the relationship/FWB. I have found that if you want to give her facials, you better come correct with something else they want. Some of them, just eating their pussy out a lot will make them open to it, it just depends on the individual. You just need to be prepared to work for it and give them their equivalent of a facial.
I honestly feel pretty happy for the next guy if I got to train my recent ex to take a lot of facials. I like to think that she'll take thousands more. I just never truly know how many men ask for it, or how often women get asked it. Most women seem to be able to take it or leave it; and with a few of them, I can imagine they might have felt a sense of relief if the guy after me didn't ask to cum on their face. I think women like breaks from it.
At this point, I don't really have a hard time with women who take facials being in the "carrying a torch for" department. Facials have been frequent enough. Are my stats skewed? I never would have believed at age 20 that I would have had this high a ratio of women taking facials. I guess the law of averages would mean that ratio should go down in the future; so maybe I should carry torches.
At this point, the ones I carry torches for are women who eat ass deep and nasty. I'd say I've had somewhere between 12-15 women who give hardcore rimjobs. Although, the ass eating ladies have been coming out of the woodwork more over the last decade, in my experience. But damn, I just lose myself for those women.
I'm looking forward to more responses on this topic and hope this thread can take off. It's fun to read about, and I've always been curious.
Generally, I find it really hard to believe that the majority of women haven’t done it. I’d expect it’s incredibly common to be asked, far less common to ask for it themselves and I would imagine there’s far more people who don’t enjoy it, or simply accept it happening than actually enjoy it.
I’ve been in the same relationship for 20 years, since being a teenager with some limited sexual activity before this, so I’ve only ever asked or done this to my current partner and she isn’t really into it.
But she will let me if I ask.
This 100%, but I think that’s pretty fair sexual etiquette anyway. If you want something, give a little first.Quote:
Originally Posted by KingCheeser
I’ll usually go down on my parter real good for a few days and then ask ask this.
I'm in my early 60's. Back when I was a teen, facials weren't a thing. Blow jobs and swallowing was it. Had I known of facials then, I'm certain my then girlfriend would have been up for it. She sure did swallow a lot of my loads. But with porn today, I'm sure most women have seen it and are aware of facials. My first wife allowed it. Wasn't a fan, but let me do it from time to time. In my early 50's, I was single. And was with 15 different women during that time. And each when asked, allowed me to cum on there face. And now, mature facial porn is my biggest turn on.
I definitely think more women not only find it acceptable and have taken a facial. No only that but similar to young women ho more and more don't view blowjobs as, "sex" but taking a facial is even more removed from the classification as sex.
I love eating pussy. I’m married now but in the past, after kissing and some fondling I would usually immediately go down in a girl, and she would normally reciprocate immediately afterwards. I would continue to give and give, as well as be romantic and sensual, and would just state to in conversations about sex that I like facials, and usually within a few weeks, I would be cumming on her face, and from their mannerisms, it was the first facial for most of them or they had not had many.Quote:
Originally Posted by KingCheeser
Give her a sexual package where a price tag of taking a facial is a great deal.
Couldn’t agree more.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dimmesdale
Assuming most have sex a few times a week. Give it the absolute works on Monday, especially great oral and you’ll be giving a facial by Friday at least
I firmly believe when a woman swallows initially then she would accept a facial as well. I am convinced that most woman accept facials nowadays in preference of swallowing, at least my good lady does.
I dated a total horn dog in college, that gal was up for anything......except facials. Cum in her mouth all day long and she swallowed with glee, but to deliberately facial her, not happening. She just didn't like it she said. I managed to get her with a few "missed the mark" now and then though, but not the whole load.Quote:
Originally Posted by window2010
Like others here I don't have much recent experience having been with the same woman for well over 15 years. But from past relationships I only ever had one gf that would not want to get a facial, and she also had other hangups around sex and intimacy that I realise looking back. I dated one woman who was very much in to it, as in cum and cumshots were a real kink for her and everyone else has been fine with it even if they admit that its not really their thing as such. Mostly (as with my lady now) they like it because I like it. As with most things in the bedroom (hopefully!), people get enjoyment from seeing their partner turned on too. My lady recently said to me that she'd be pretty upset if I suddenly didn't want to cum over her :D