THE question... many guys (me included) are worried about the size of our cocks... so, does it really matters? What girls think about it?
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THE question... many guys (me included) are worried about the size of our cocks... so, does it really matters? What girls think about it?
Well, how big is your dick?Quote:
Originally Posted by ytse
If you're between 5 and 7 inches, then you're fine. Having a shorter dick isn't so bad as long as you have the right amount of girth. I actually think having a longer dick is more of a problem because you could end up hurting whoever you're penetrating. A friend of mine with a large dick has told me that sometimes it actually hits his girlfriend's cervix and actually bruised it. Trust me, it didn't sound like fun.
If you're less than 5 inches, then the only thing you have to worry about is embarrassment, but it depends on the girl. However there are no statistics about this. For the most part, it's all about aesthetics. Most of the time a dick that just isn't quite as long as most will still be just as pleasurable in sex. But there is still a sizable population of girls out there who want, or think they want, large cocks.
yes and no....u will not become a greater lover...ur hands and body is really what matters most....but it looks better on camera with a big one...and if u like to hurt her it is nice as well....BUT a normal size penis and a small for that sake, can easily make a woman satisfied if u know how to make love
Size does not matter.
Different sizes have different appeals.
Smaller cocks...My favorite stunt cock is one of the smaller ones in my stable. ("Stable" Doesn't that sound so rude? lol ) It is small but it belongs to a man who can turn me on in so many different ways. It also fits perfectly in my ass so when he was fucking me a few weeks ago, he could fuck me hard. You can't do that with a bigger dick. I was bent over a couch and my ass was totally exposed. He even was saying degrading things like, "Your man can't fuck you like this. Fuck you hard in your ass. Do you feel like a Whore giving me your ass so roughly when you don't give it to your man?" I was very turned on. :o
Medium dicks have their roles also. They are really fun to suck on and when I can get more than one in my mouth, it looks so cheap and Slutty. It feels wonderful. You can't do that with big cocks. Deepthroating. There is no better feeling than taking the Whole Dick in my mouth and then bobbing up and down on it especially if someone is holding onto my pigtails. Small cocks are good for this also. Medium dicks can also fuck me hard which is a very large positive.
Large and super large dicks have their uses but more in a limited way. They give me that stuffed feeling (and look) but their downside is that they can only be used sparingly, especially super large dicks. I have a very tight pussy and fitting a super large cock takes preparation (with bigger and bigger dildos) and whole lot of getting psyched up. The largest dick that I have ever seen in person, and had in my pussy, was a friend of my smallest Stunt Cock. ;) My smaller cock friend wanted to see me stuffed. After taking on that 11" monster, I fucked my man like crazy. He fit perfectly. (I just realized my pussy is soaking wet picturing these cocks) I am back to being too small again. We were apart for several weeks. :( I fucked him yesterday and the day before and I felt like a virgin. Part turn on and part not. I like when he can fuck me hard. Right now, I can only do cowgirl with him. Back to the pussy stretching, I guess. ;) lol
Be happy with whatever dick you have. They all work their magic to someone for some reason.
Remember porn does not use a good cross section of your average size penis. My man is the second largest cock that I have seen in person and I have seen a ton of cock. I would say he is smaller than most cocks you see in porn. Be comfortable and confident with whatever you have. It counts for a lot more than size.
Piper
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Originally Posted by ytse
Very well put, Piper!!Quote:
Originally Posted by gloryholeprincess
Ytse, you actually don't need more input than this.
Yes, size does matter.
But, as Piper says: Be confident with whatever you have!
yes but here we talking porn sex which a very different thing that having sex with one u love...other things come in to play
Haven't we debunked this particular myth before? If you are worried about the size of your penis then you aren't paying attention to the important part of sex....YOUR PARTNER. If you spend enough time getting to know his/her go buttons you won't have to worry about the size of your penis, because your partner certainly won't. Keep in mind folks the most important sexual organ on any one is the one between your ears...not between your legs.
Love and Peace...and maybe the occasional mind blowing blowjob
According to my girlfriend, my 5 1/2 inches is the biggest she ever had and the girth is actually pretty hard to fit inside of her sometimes. I was kinda worried (after watching porn for over 5 years before actually losing my virginity) that my dick would not satisfy a woman, seeing as most porn cocks are 6 inches or more.
Size does matter, but it is far from being the most important thing. What you do with your hands/tongue, talking dirty to her or just doing what she likes is more important than the size of what you penetrate her with.
My 2ct.
Based on a relationship forum I have visited that is not a sex forum but sex topics come up like this topic, and where there are many women posters of all ages and backgrounds the overwhelming replies I have seen by them is yes size matters.
But....Different women are satisfied by different sizes , you don't need to be a 9 incher. And it is not the be all end all to their satisfaction.
The things I have learned on that forum is a majority of women are turned on by a man's mind more than anything, that being a nice guy and getting passed over because for a *badboy* is a topic many guys are frustrated with, that women are generally insecure about their looks even when they are good looking and that cock size and boobs are topics both sexes never get enough of.:p
im a woman and I can tell you. 5 inches is more than enough. More and it hurts. Plus you can do more with 5 inches. You can do anal. Try doing anal with 9 inches!!! and you can deep throat a lot easier.
[QUOTE=kimtoole;570951and you can deep throat a lot easier.[/QUOTE]
Funny, some make a big deal of that but deep throating me doesn't do much for me. I get turned on (hard) quick by a soft sensual bj , and when she uses no hands it feels 10 times better.;) Blowing me like a jack hammer doesn't do anything for me either.
Piper...next time in upstate NY, lemme know if u wanna try me out :)
im 6 - 7 inch sometimes it pops into my head that id like to be bigger but at the same time i love anal. and bigger would make that harder to do and prob not as often so im happy
my husband is around average size at 6ish inches and I'm quite happy with it. I've enjoyed bigger cocks and smaller ones. getting to play with D's giant cock with Nyxia is extremely enjoyable. I prefer the average size for every day sex, I worry about getting too stretched out.
but I have been with a fellow who was rather small (3-4") where the sex was rather sub par. but that could also be due to his level of selfishness. its really all about how you work it!
agreed peep. It really doesnt matter. Small or large its really how you handle your equipment.
:D :D I have had the same worry. lol
PiperQuote:
Originally Posted by little lo peep
Please pardon the ' length ', but size matters.
A South African court has blocked the government from buying 11 million Chinese
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from China. A rival firm, Sekunjalo Investments Corporation, turned to the High
Court in Pretoria after losing the bid, arguing that their condoms were 20 percent
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ruling that the condoms were too small, made from the wrong material, and were
not approved by the World Health Organisation. South Africa has more HIV infections
than any country in the world, with 5.38 million of its 50 million people carrying the virus.
So go Longggggggg and invest in Church & Dwight & Co., maker of Trojan brand.
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Size only matters if you're fucking. If you're tight like I am, a big cock hurts. I like having a finger or two inserted, but that's all. My clit is where all the action is. I'm a big oral fan, so cock size not something I think about much.
"getting to play with D's giant cock with Nyxia is extremely enjoyable."Quote:
Originally Posted by little lo peep
hey miss pixels have you ever fucked Nand? i`m assuming D=Nand
i`ve seen pics of oral not fucking though
mabey I missed that
Thank you all for all responses and so sorry about replying late. The only worrying is because I only had sex with one woman, my gf, and she only had sex with me too. But one of the things that is really freaking me out is, if I have sex with another girl whose had sex with other guys, if my cock is going to be "a problem"... maybe she only had sex with big cocked guys and she "laughs at me" or she makes me embarrased or... I'm really insecure about that topic. I posted pictures of me in the Male section a while ago (now deleted) and not many girls really commented. And is not about comparing me with porn actors with cocks as big as the Empire State...
Thanks for the answers, you are really nice people :)
Nope, you didn't miss anything Ballsnot. There's been only oral between the four of us.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ballsnot
Ytse, I don't think your dick is going to be a problem, but your insecurity about it might be. Girls usually don't care about the size of our dick as much as your confidence and drive to please them in the bedroom. If you just try hard to make them happy, they don't mind otherwise.Quote:
Originally Posted by ytse
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Originally Posted by ytse
ytse, you worry too much and need to have confidence. I have had levels of insecurity like you when I was in my late teens. Guess what?, I was coming down too hard on myself because my cock turned out to be just fine for most women. What will destroy you with a woman faster than anything is having lack of confidence. And, if a woman gives you a bad time, or is rude or such you don't want to be with her anyway do you?
Be confident, be passionate and sensual with her, and you will probably have her dreaming about you. Besides, on the woman's side, not all vaginas are created equal either my friend.
You only have had sex with one woman, and that is not a bad thing. But if you experience other women you'll find that with some you will find a great togetherness with and some you just won't. It doesn't necessarily mean there is something wrong with you, it just means maybe the chemistry wasn't there. Or maybe it will get better the more the two of you know each other.:)
Yes, it really does matter. It's the same kind of thing as guys liking a tight pussy. It just feels better that way.
Well i look at it like this, if i had a pay rise at work would i like a little one or a big one..........:D:D;)
I discover a new side of FF... I clap my hand for all your wise comments. Especially the experimented women (they will recognize themselves;))
It s a marvelous thing to help human (it s a man in this case but i bet u do the same thing for women) to feel better in his sexuality, without mercy or liying.
The advantage and inconvenient of cock by size, for example, that s the good way or telling how felling (i dont say love to include 1 night story :p or sub :D) r important...
I will read also the non xxx thread
Bravo
PS Sometimes a collective reputation button will be useful
Encore bravo
Finally happened. It wasn't a problem like most of you said. In fact, she enjoyed it so much. She made me cum in her mouth really fast.
Thank you very much indeed. You guys rock :)
my dick is 13 inches and I've never had anal. Believe it or not I wish I could knock of 6 or so. Most girls only want to suck it.....;-(Quote:
Originally Posted by kimtoole
shit. i will take them if you dont want em
I've been lurking this board for months now, so impressed by the openness of it.
Admittingly, I'm not my own dicks biggest fan. I'm embarrased to be in my mid to late 20's, and under 6" erect.
My wife seems to like it, sometimes I'm not sure.
Can't believe I'm posting this on the internet. Feels... relieving.
Thanks FF.
I think that this statistic should enlighten you, and make you feel better also!
The Average Length of an Erect Human Penis: 5.95 inches (151mm)
But the Kinsey Institute has it listed as 5 Inches, because they based their numbers on actual measurements conducted by them, while the 5.95 Inches statistic was obtained through a survey, where I can guarantee you that people listed the size of their penis as larger than what it really was.
I remember what my biology teacher said a few years ago when one of my classmates wanted to know where he "ranked" in terms of size; ---> "No girl wants to have sex with a red wood tree!"
**ML** We don't allow hotlinking at the forum
I think that although large cocks are nice to look at, they are very intimidating. I like a cock that isnt too big or to small. Around six or seven inches is nice, much bigger I might take off running. ;)
In our case I can vouch for the hurting-your-partner part.
I have always been fatter than the average black men. But lately I have lost a lot of kilo's making my cock length to be more 'exposed'.
U know... Not a big belly covering it. My wife told me that I used to be average length but thick. But now she says that it has become longer too.
So whole story short... I'm not used to have a BBC size.
A week ago I was really horny and fucked my wife deep and rough. Afterwards she had pain in her belly for days. I felt really bad. :(
So yeah... Having a big cock can deprive you from some fun that other men can have.
I was considering making a similar sort of thread but knew I'd find one eventually. I agree a lot with what Piper said.
I haven't had a lot of experience but I do enjoy smaller-medium, although the occasional large one I'd cope with! I also find the smaller the guy is the more he tries to make the most of it and the more he appreciates it, which makes it all the better. So long as sperm comes out I'm content with the size.
I've never seen it in real life, but larger guys who have their tummy over hanging their member slightly I find enjoyable. It's like a little treasure hunt. The surrounds, the person and extras play a large part in the experience. It isn't simply penis size, especially when thinking about oral or facials.
I don't think it matters, depends on the technique
I prefer a big cock but I just like cock so any will do.
Hi all
I have a real 25 cm penis/cock (thats 10 inch) and he's about 6 cm thick (2,5 inch) , the problem for me is I don't have a wife anymore because of that size...
We have been together for 21 years and have two kids, but we only had sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month and she needed a least one bottle of wine before the sex to
be relaxed enough for it.
Second problem is that when he's not erect it's still 10 to 14 cm (4 to 5,5") and if I wear a boxer short he's hanging down my jeans, creating a bulge , so I can only wear tight fitting underwear.
third problem is that I have become very afraid to meet/date a new woman/lady ,maybe that woman like the idea of a 'monster cock' , but when she feels it she might run away and I really don't
want that 'broken heart feeling' again.
So the moral of this story is, keep dreaming about a big one, but in the real world it has more downsides...
(sorry for my English, I hope you understand what I try to say)
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Originally Posted by Before
Yes and no. Hubbie is about 7.25" Hes not huge, but Im very petite. As a result he sometimes hits my cervix with the head when hes really nailing me hard. When he does it hurts bad, and I do not like it. So, I would think I could be happy with smaller. I definitely wouldn't want to get penetrated by a guy with a bigger cock. I would however happily suck him off. Regardless, the biggest thing a guy can do, regardless of size, is to take the time to really get her turned on, and feeling sexy. It will be worth it in the end.Quote:
Originally Posted by ytse
I just went back and read this. I can't help but laugh to myself and think that a lot of guys are reading this saying, "oh you poor thing, you have it rough!" :PQuote:
Originally Posted by like ra
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Originally Posted by like ra
Oh my god! You're so lucky, and your wife too. I wish I had a boyfriend with a cock like yours!
Agreed! You're totally right. My hubby is around 7" when he's hard. Thats just about right IMHO. Bigger is not always better.Quote:
Originally Posted by btdougsgirl