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I have same problem except my wife has been willing to experiment a little and I think the main thing for her is that she doesn't like the taste. For me It's that I don't have that much volume. Is there any kind of special diet to increase volume and/or improve the taste?
Have you ever tried to give yourself a facial in front of her?! Doing on you the thing that you to do on her maybe will let her accept the fact it's absolutly not degrading. Don't know if some folks here have tried doing the same!? Curious to know about this!^^
Since you said your wife is fairly open sexually, my suggestion would be to watch porn together that you know she would enjoy. Go over some pornstars together and find some that you both think are hot. Find some films where the ladies are having fun taking facials.
For my wife and I, we like pornstars like Gianna michaels, Presley Maddox, Riley mason, Katie st. Ives.
I like the idea of watching facial porn together to show her how enojyable and fun it can be. There are so many facial scenes when the girls/women giggle and laugh when getting a big, fat facial -so nice :)
I'm in no relationship at all, but the approach of watching porn together worked very well for me before ;)
But if you have the permission of your wife to fulfill your fantasy "outside" - how about searching for bukkake events, if there are any in your area? And if you feel comfortable with the situation of being in a group of wanking males. That would'nt involve the dating thing with the woman and she'll definately know what she's into.
I wouldnt have the slightest idea of how to find a bukkake event in my area. Though I would definetly be open to that.
Treat her like a queen. Keep asking respectfully.
RM
My wife likes cum, but doesn't like it in her eyes or across/up her nose. On her cheeks, mouth and chin it's cool with her. Maybe your wife feels degraded having her upper face covered?
Following on oldblue's suggestion, take your time with her.
Back in grad school I dated a girl (for about 2 years) who was not only a virgin, but had had no sexual experience prior to me. She wanted to 'save herself' for marriage. So at first, I used to get her off by rubbing her pussy. I'd then straddle her and she'd jack me off (onto her chest). It took a while before she'd even give me a blowjob, but eventually she did--but she never, ever let me cum in her mouth. So when I got ready to cum she'd pull off and let me cum on her tits. Once when she was blowing me, I asked if when I came I could cum on her lips (rather than neck and chest). She let me do that and, using my cock, would even let me rub it on her cheeks. Turned out, she like the smell of semen--sort of reminded her of cut grass. So cumming on her lips became a pretty regular thing. But sometimes if I had an especially big orgasm some of my load would shoot above the lips onto her nose. Eventually she began to rub my cum all over her face. And it was not too long after that she'd actually let me cum on her face (she'd always jack me off onto her face), which I continued to do until she moved away and the relationship ended.
It probably took at least a year before this happened, and with luck your wife may eventually come around. As some of the others have suggested, don't be afraid to express your desire, but don't be pushy either. Who knows, she might get drunk one night and let you do it. And if she does, be sure to tell her how hot and beautiful she looks with your cum on her.
Theorie
p.s. on a related note, my current gf and I have been together for about 4 years. When we first met she thought the idea of anal sex was gross and disgusting. She'd NEVER let me even touch her asshole. However, in the last couple of months she even admitted to fantasizing about it during masturbation. I told her I'd love to try it sometime; but I'm in no hurry to do it. I think eventually she'll let me try. Slow and steady encouragement. . .
p.p.s. sorry to be so long winded!
I think the taste and smell is the biggest hurdle and I've got some good suggestions to change that. thanks theoriemeister awesome story!Quote:
Originally Posted by theoriemeister
lots of great info here! if i could chime in... my last gf didnt let me cum on her face at all. everytime we fucked i would cum on her stomach but because of natural god given gift of shooting pretty far, slowly i would aim for her tits and (accidently) shoot her face... little by little she would close her eyes and say "omg i cant believe you reach my face" then one day i just said im going for your face and she was like ok... BAM i was in!
im working on my next one now!:D