Glad to see it went so well. Just shows life can surprise you. Best of luck.
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Glad to see it went so well. Just shows life can surprise you. Best of luck.
I'll share, but only if she's willing, and we are definitely not to the point where I can ask her that yet! But don't worry, I know, I know...Quote:
Originally Posted by theoriemeister
So, how is the relationship working out? Have things gotten more serious or did you two grow apart due to the distance?
I do have experience with this. It is not a common thing, most of the time a girl working at a bar is there for work and the chances are she sees you as a client nothing more. However two people becoming enamoured can happen anywhere and there was twice that I came to know a girl outside the bar. In fact I wouldn't even go to hang at the club anymore except to pick her up after her shift. Most dancers prefer their guy to be separate from their work.Quote:
Originally Posted by snesh
I don't really go to strip bars much anymore, but the girls working there run from one spectrum to the other from the kind of girl who has substance issues or who will also prostitute , to the kind of girl that actually prefers other girls and uses men for money, to the smart and got it together girl who is temporarily stripping to make money until she moves on to bigger and better things.
So for the OP I'd say give a shot, unless some dark aspects of her come to light. Just don't try to buy her , any woman that truly wants you doesn't want to be bought or showered with gifts otherwise you'll loose her respect and she'll use you until she is finished with you.
I will add also that I have known a few strippers in my time though only actually dated a couple, mostly because back in the day they seemed to gravitate toward us rocker musician types and the fact is percentage wise most those girls had a moral compass that was all fucked up. The kind of girl you have fun with but don't marry. However I have a long time life long friend who was a stripper, and she was loyal to her boyfriends or husband, not a drug addict, and is a talented musician who is now making art and selling them for up to $5000 a painting and is happily married and the kind of friend who will be there for you at the drop of a hat.
So true. Unless he is so good looking and impressive to her and under certain circumstances.For instance I'll never understand men who go looking for a wife half his age like the foreign bride deal and think that it will be a lasting true love marriage only to be left in the dust later. If a guy wants to go that route he might as well be true to himself and negotiate a "arrangement" with her and accept it it isn't about love.Quote:
Originally Posted by MikeSouth
I got to say I just read through the entire thread , it took four months for the OP's girl to finally fill a real date? Seems to me a woman who is really interested finds a way to have time and bothers the guy to see him, sometimes to the point of being annoying.
I know us men can go gaga over a hot babe, to the point of not thinking straight, been down that road before. As far as strippers, once you take away the fascination generally because of their probably good looks, though many strippers aren't actually all that good looking actually, because many of them are thin and all tattooed up which is not my real preference, you come to find that no matter how hot she (any woman) is it isn't worth the aggravation, the broken heart and empty finances.