Forum behavior regarding women here
This is a note to the guys on here about contacting female FF members, whether via PM, IM, email, or in FF Chat*.
FF is incredibly lucky to have not only lurking, but active, vocal, intelligent, cum-loving female members. This is a pretty rare thing for a porn forum - usually if girls like porn they keep it to themselves, and tend not to go for something as allegedly male-oriented as facial cumshots.
You should refrain from being rude or abusive to any FF member (part of the official rules). But I've been getting complaints from female members about borderline harassment from various male users. So here's a few things to remember:
1. Just because a woman is on FF doesn't mean she's looking for sex.
There are several happily married, non-swinging women here who just like to enhance their sex life by browsing and chatting about sex. Even if they're swingers or single, that still just means they're just here looking to share their mutual sexual interest - not necessarily get a facial from a stranger. Sure, they might want that eventually...but don't assume they are.
2. Just because a woman goes in the FF Chat doesn't mean she wants to "Cyber".
Some people in Chat just like to Chat...sometimes not even about sex. Sure, some women enter Chat just as horny as the next guy, wanting to get worked up with some sex talk. But not everyone goes from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds. The first or second thing to say to a female member in FF Chat should not be "im hard and jerkin right now can i cum on your face?" Especially if they don't know you at all. That kind of thing is really off-putting and can drive women away from even entering Chat.
3. Just as in the real world...NO (or no response) MEANS NO
You can't fault a guy for trying...once. But if you've approached a female FF member and they've ignored you or said "not interested", that's the end of it. Continued contact would be considered harassment and members will contact a Mod or Admin about it.
As a Mod here, I want this place to be cool for both men and women. Without men, there would be no cumshots. But without women, there would be no facials.
*Please note we do not have Chat feature anymore but the same rules apply when contacting OR discussing women.
Etiquette. Is that realistic?
On the one hand the above seems like common sense and attempts to lend almost high brow respectability to this site. And I think that is fine but it also totally unrealistic.
This site, in my view, is both fun and harmless. No one, I would imagine, has ever gotten physically injured from looking at Facial Forum. I’m glad it’s available. But come on. The mere fact that this forum, like all internet forums, is anonymous tends to bring out some rather unpleasant realities about many people. That is all the more true here since sex is such a sensitive subject, especially for men who have trouble finding desirable, willing women.
I would not be at all surprised if most, though not all, of the "women" on this site are men indulging in some personal fantasy. That is absolutely the case even on well known chat sites like Yahoo, The pictures in the free section here seem real enough but a large percentage are easily recognizable as internet retreads. I have a few hundred on my hard drive, I bet a lot of men do, and my wife writes it off as "well that's just how men are". And she likes real sex just fine, thank you. But she is not a porn star and has no interest in becoming one.
Again, this is all fine and, after all, I'm typing this here. If I don't like it I'll leave and no one will care. But the reality is that this is a porn site and someone is trying to make money by running it. It is just the same as why all the girls in these pictures did what they did. They did it to make money. We all should keep that in mind.
This is totally unsurprising and the way of the world. But trafficking in commercial sex is not the world's most high brow endeavor; far, far from it. How much more primal can you get? Why do you think they call it "the world's oldest profession"?
How do we know what's sexy and what's raunchy
I've read all the posts and pretty much agree with everything that has been said. I definitely appreciate that fact that so many beautiful women are here enjoying the theme of Facial Forum. You all make my world such a better place to live.
What advice and guidance can the ladies give on the appropiate words to use when responding to post, pictures, etc posted by female members? How are us guys supposed to know when you want words that convey sweet, tender passion versus words that convey primal, lustful passion?
It seems to me that you can post a comment that is respectful and follows the three fules of etiqueete, but one that is just a little too rauchy for the recipient. On the other hand, I am fairly confident that there a few females members that get turned on by graphic descriptions of the passion I feel.
I love and respect ever female member of the Facial Forum. When you a comment that is full of tenderness, I want to give you that comment. When you want a comment that is full of obscene things that I want to do with you, I want to give you that comment.
