Reluctance is Hot

We've all been there... You're having sex with a new girlfriend and you pop the question for the first time, "Is it okay if I cum on your face?"

If she's totally into it, that's wonderful! You know there are many more facials to look forward to. But if you ask her and her mood changes and she pouts and sighs, "Do you have to? I guess...whatever." Something about her reluctance REALLY makes me want to glaze her face. In this situation I tend to make it even more abnoxious than usual, sometimes focusing the entire load on her closed eyes or even sending a shot up her nose.

I'd like to hear from other guys out there. Is reluctance a turn on, or am I just an asshole?

I have always been looking for girls that really liked Cum. I've normally started by Cumming on their tits and went on from there. When a reluctant girlfriend had me covering her boobs a few times they often took it on the face. Maybe because they noticed my excitement! And sometimes I just saved my load for a week and "happened" to shoot it all over her instead of just her tits.

A few years ago I had a really reluctant girlfriend though. To tell you the truth, I was more eager than ever to cover her face! The first time I had just come home to her place after working away for a week. I had teased her about licking her pussy and fucking her with a buttplug, which she loved. When I got horny messages back I replied with the wish of a welcome-home-blowjob. I was happy when she dropped to her knees in the hallway for me. I couldn't help myself grabbing her hair and filling her mouth with a week worth of Cum!

I don't think I'm an asshole, and I don't believe your desire to give a girl a facial due to her reluctance is either.

O by the way! The same girl got so into facials that she liked filming me Cum on her face so she could count how many ropes she could make shoot!

I think it just intensifies the fact that she's willing to take a load for you...

I think the key is to find a girl who's willing and enjoys taking facials, and have her pretend that she doesn't.

Role play + handcuffs + pouting + facial = win!

This is definately true:

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Originally Posted by nutritionshake

I think it just intensifies the fact that she's willing to take a load for you...

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I've often thought the hottest part of giving a facial was when the girl has her eyes shut and is waiting right before you finish. Something about the fact she is permitting and is accepting you to shoot thick, stick, smelly, foul cum all over her face. The trust, vulnerability, and total submission comfort and soothe my own vulnerabilities and fears. In that moment, I have all the power. I could shoot on her tits instead, I know when the load is coming; she doesn't. The cumshot experience, in my opinion, changes depending ong on the girl. Now, it's a period at the end of the sex sentence. The sex is over, and I need to comfort her as I love and respect her and feel guilty. In the past, with the soroity girlfriend, the cumshot was an exclamation point: she was my own personal sorostitute.
Leading each to the bathroom to clean up is also different. With the sorostitute, I enjoyed every moment I could see MY jizz gleam and shine on her face. It almost a slow-mo experience. With the fiance, I jus want her cleaned up as fast as possible.

Reluctance can be really hot, depending on the girl. The sorostitute was the perfect pornstar type - plain face but with pretty eyes and cute dimples; big, full, round, firm DD tits; large, shapely ass, very small abd cute pot-belly; she was a soroity girl, kinda dumb, and immature. She hated facials, but would do them for me. The change from her convincing act of "I really want your cum blasted on my face" to "I am disgusted with my present situation, with you, and with myself" was so hot. If I got it in her hair, the transformation was total. She once apologized to me about the scowls, and I responded it was fine, but I thought that makes it hotter. Of course, when she could keep her cool, it was hot knowing she was controlling herself for me.

My current fiance however . . . I feel guilty, and it's only briefly a turn on before the guilt kicks in. I love and respect her, and she is soft and beautiful: I feel she should be posing for nudes rather than on her knees preparaing for a load. Facials are still my kink, but I ask for it much less. I don't know if I am just worried she'll stop doing it, or I am actually having empathy. I think a mix of both. Of course, with all that being said, the facails with her are the hottest I've experienced, and as physical evidence, my loads are normally so much bigger than ever before.

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Originally Posted by LasseBosch

My current fiance however . . . I feel guilty, and it's only briefly a turn on before the guilt kicks in. I love and respect her, and she is soft and beautiful: I feel she should be posing for nudes rather than on her knees preparaing for a load. Facials are still my kink, but I ask for it much less. I don't know if I am just worried she'll stop doing it, or I am actually having empathy. I think a mix of both. Of course, with all that being said, the facails with her are the hottest I've experienced, and as physical evidence, my loads are normally so much bigger than ever before.

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I have a similar experience. I am so turned on just thinking about cuming on her face. But after that actual act, I start to feel remorse. It's the anticipation more so than the actual act that really gets me going.

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Originally Posted by LasseBosch

I've often thought the hottest part of giving a facial was when the girl has her eyes shut and is waiting right before you finish. Something about the fact she is permitting and is accepting you to shoot thick, stick, smelly, foul cum all over her face.

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Interesting choice of words, LasseBosch. My cum in neither smelly, nor foul, so I don't view a facial as depositing something gross on a woman's face.

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Originally Posted by theoriemeister

Interesting choice of words, LasseBosch. My cum in neither smelly, nor foul, so I don't view a facial as depositing something gross on a woman's face.

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Interesting is one way to describe those comments, nasty is another:eek: Dude, maybe you should change your diet....and your adjectives!

I am thankful my cum has never been referred to as "foul" by anyone:confused:

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Originally Posted by theoriemeister

Interesting choice of words, LasseBosch. My cum in neither smelly, nor foul, so I don't view a facial as depositing something gross on a woman's face.

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Between a less-than-stellar diet and ADHD medication, my cum isn't the tastiest, from what I've been told - as far as I know it might be delicious but the idea of tasting is way to uncomfortable to me, and at times, I can even smell it.

I choose the words to reflect the girls' opinions. They have viewed the act as demeaning, and consequently, have an even greater distaste for the cum. As I mentioned, they have only done it as it's my kink.

Quattrog, yes the anticipation is by far the best part now. Excellent choice of words.

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Originally Posted by LasseBosch

This is definately true:
My current fiance however . . . I feel guilty, and it's only briefly a turn on before the guilt kicks in. I love and respect her, and she is soft and beautiful: I feel she should be posing for nudes rather than on her knees preparaing for a load.

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I felt this way a Looooooooooooong time ago, thanks to a Catholic up bringing. Couldn't even rub one out without the guilts. I think the reason for your guilt lies deep, and I hope you overcum it. I love and respect my wife the same as you do your fiance, difference being I see her acceptance of my load as extension of the text book definition of love. We end most of our sex with a facial and then a passionate kiss sharing my love juice. I wish I could post photos of my wife, because I have one that portraits her beauty while wearing a huge load. In the pic she is fully dressed, nice makeup, good foliage (oct). It shows her softness and beauty....with a load.

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Originally Posted by LasseBosch

I've often thought the hottest part of giving a facial was when the girl has her eyes shut and is waiting right before you finish.

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I totally agree. Nothing on earth is more beautiful than a girl waiting for a load. I'm lucky to have a girlfriend who genguinely enjoys facials, and she's worked with me over time to develope the perfect posture.

When I'm ready to cum, I'll lead her to the middle of the room and she kneels in front of me.

spine perpendicular to the floor
hands behind her back
shoulders back
face tilted about 45°
eyes closed

At that moment she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Sometimes I will pause and stroke her cheek. She knows what's coming, and she's accepting it willingly and gracefully. Perfection.

When I'm about to cum, I'll tell her to show me her tongue. She sticks her tongue out as far as she can without looking strained and tilts her head back just a little more. Life doesn't get any better.

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