Do your friends know?

I hope there isn't already a thread like that - my search for it wasn't succsessfull

Some days ago a friend came over to watch a basketball-match and as a Student I have to study, sleep and watch TV in the same room.
While we were sitting there my gf came in said hello and then walked to my nightstand and put my two cameras into a drawer.
First my friend said nothing but when she left after a few minutes he laughed and ask why she had to hide the cameras? Of course he could guess but I didn't tell him that we take pictures of her cum covered face :P
but it was quite hot to talk to someone (although we just made some unspecific jokes) about taking some "sexy" pictures.
And then I had a idea for this thread, because

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing?
Do they know you are into facials?
Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?)
And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them?
How did they find out or why did you tell them?

The only one who knows that we are taking pictures of my gfs covered face, is my cousin
and not becuase I told him but because he was using my pc and I forgot delete the wallpaper I used to have at my private PC. -.-
but we never talked about it - he must have seen it, but he didn't even make some jokes (what I propbably would have done if I would be in his postion :P)

Yup we definitely have some friends who know what we do. Firstly, it is clear to all of our friends that we are very sexual. We have liberator furniture (look it up) sitting out in the open and we talk dirty all the time when they are around us. They've all seen the furniture, and they've all heard raunchy remarks we've made about each other. But that doesn't necessarily mean they "know what we do". Many of our friends have seen indications of what we do. There have been many occasions when we have been showing them photos on our phones and said "DON'T SCROLL LEFT, DON'T SCROLL RIGHT, JUST LOOK AT THE DAMN PICTURE WE ARE SHOWING YOU!!!" They tend to get the idea that we enjoy taking naughty photos... That said, most of them have no idea what those photos consist of.

We do, however, have a couple of friends with whom we couldn't resist telling some detail to. We have two friends in particular that know the following about us:

1. We take sexy photos and video of ourselves
2. We post many of those photos and videos on an online forum
3. We have enjoyed some threesomes and foursomes with other like-minded people (just started doing this recently...)

As of yet, no one knows specifically that we enjoy facials and cumshots, and no one has actually seen any of our content (unless they happen to be a member of this forum and we have no idea... but then they wouldn't know either because we keep our identities obscured).

We're pretty private about ours, but that's mostly because we don't have a whole lot of close friends in the area. We've moved around a bit, and it gets harder and harder to build friendships that are intimate enough to share that sort of information. That said, we did have a long, alcohol-fueled conversation with our favorite friend couple a while back that went into great detail...but not those details. We told them we take pictures and video sometimes, but not specifically of facials, and didn't show them any. Other than them, I think most people we know would be shocked to find out the things we do, and we're pretty vanilla as things go. We're very open, sexual and interested in experimentation, but so far have settled on pretty much the range of 'normal' things. That said, we would love to have some friends to talk about these things with! That's part of what makes this forum great!

A couple family members know (cousins) from house sitting for us while we were gone I left our pc for them to use and yes they saw everything. Co workers as well stumbling across pics on the net commenting they say what kind of stuff I do but we are pretty open its sex everyone does it. Keep a open mind and dont worry about what others think that way when you do get caught it wont be a big deal. keep having fun!

Most of our friends and some of our coworkers know we are pervs and some know about our pics and threesome, moresome activities. However, we don't advertise that we post on twitter or FF. We just don't want that level of scrutiny. If they find it themselves, then all good but we don't feel obligated to point them right towards it all. ;)

Xoxo,

J&s

Interesting topic, and some interesting replies already. I'm also very curious what other couples have to say.

For us, I'm afraid, the answer is not real interesting. Nobody we know at this point, family or otherwise, knows we are into taking pictures or facials. I guess that I should clarify that other members here know about us loving facials but if there are members here who we know from outside the forum, I do not know who they are, nor would they realize this is us.

We do have another couple who is very close to us that know we have some kinky tendencies, but no actual details have been shared with them, at least not by me. If Em wanted to let anyone know, I would be ok with it. But, she is worried people would think we were weird or something if we shared details. I guess letting them use their imaginations is preferable for her.

I am extremely curious about couples we know and what they might be into, be it facials, anal, bdsm, swapping, or whatever. I think many people do lots of things other than straight sex, and it would be fun to know what their kinks are. Seems like that is not the kind of question you feel comfortable coming right out asking. You never know what the reaction might be. Maybe a good amount of drinking or something would loosen up everyone enough to get into that type of discussion but it has not happened for us yet. Anyway, I would assume that we are not the only ones in our circle of friends and acquaintances that do facials. I don't think you can tell by looking unless maybe you are together, they disappear for a while, and she comes back with red eyes all of a sudden, or misses some cum in her hair.

I think it would be fun to have discussions about facials etc with friends if we knew they were into it. Who knows, maybe that would lead to sharing pics or even sharing facials. Maybe we should take a chance and bring it up some time. We might be missing a great opportunity.

Can't wait to hear what others have to say, and sorry that our answer is that nobody knows, but at the moment that is the case.

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...If Em wanted to let anyone know, I would be ok with it. But, she is worried people would think we were weird or something if we shared details.

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Can't wait to hear what others have to say, and sorry that our answer is that nobody knows, but at the moment that is the case.

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That's pretty much the case with us as well. As I said, I would love to have someone to share these things with in conversation, but that's just not what's happening yet.

Once, while we were attending an art/music event that I've described before here, and a friend went on and on about how it was degrading and 'if you love someone, why would you want to cum on her face?'. His diatribe went on for quite a while, and as he spoke I kept very quiet, not knowing how our other friends would react. Juliette was there listening as well. Not only was I afraid of how our friends would act, I didn't know how much she wanted to other people to know about our sex life. I decided that it would be better not to confront the speaker on what I viewed as his narrow views than it would to possibly embarrass Juliette. And I still wonder to this day if the other people there agreed or not. They did all get kinda quiet. Maybe they didn't want to embarrass each other either! ;)

No one knows that I take pix of my gf. I don't share these things with my friends, who tend to be a bit older and more conservative.

Normally I don't not keep those pics on my computer (though I have lately), for fear that someone may see them. Furthermore, there seems to be too many hackers out there who could get into my computer while I'm online if they really wanted to. And I don't want to have my computer die on me (it's already 5 years old) and have to take it someplace and have them discover the pictures--and worse, copy them and post them on the internet. (I have a buddy who does computer work and he tells me about pix he finds on the computers he works on!)

Great thread, and idea for a discussion topic. Interesting in reading stories about this.

An ex of mine had a couple incidents where people found out. One of them seems so far fetched as to not sound believable; but it is true. I'll start with that one. When we started dating, she still lived with her family. We were both in our early 20's; and she was the first girl I got to give facials to regularly. Once I talked her into it, I basically did it to her almost every time for the first few months. When it would get in her eyes, they would get red. So, she would drive home with bloodshot eyes. She told me her little sister asked about her eyes once, and she made something up and didn't tell her what it was. A few months later, her little sister met a guy. She was the type of sister that would tell her older sister everything. She told my gf that her boyfriend wanted to cum all over her face, and finally just did it to her once. My gf seemed to sense her sister had mixed feelings on it; and somehow came around to tell her that she takes facials regularly from me; and then mentioned the bloodshot eyes that her little sister noticed was from that. I actually think her little sister got a bit of a rush from it; whereas my girlfriend was neutral on it, but did it because I liked it.

So then eventually, me and the girl break up. Not long after on NewbieNudes, I see a pic of her little sister with a facial. I didn't mention it to them, because I figured nothing good could come out of that. I would post the pic here, but would feel creepy doing so. It just wouldn't feel right. But, I've seen it more than once on different sites; so I know some of you here who see a lot of the homegrown content that gets circulated have seen it.

The other story involving the same ex: She eventually moved in to her own apartment. Her bed had no headboard; just pillows then wall. Well, the paint on the wall in her apartment bedroom was probably some standard flat paint. So, the usual position she would take facials from me was her laying with her head on a pillow, me straddling her chest, and squirting forward and downward slightly, which led to some overshooting past her head on my biggest first couple shots onto the wall. So therefore with the cheap paint finish on the wall, if you positioned yourself a certain way with her nightstand lamp reflecting light off the wall, you could see "splat" patterns (even after wiping up the cum off the wall) on the wall behind her pillows. Well, her best friend came over and had a sleepover with my girlfriend one night and noticed it. I'm sure they had a conversation about it, but she didn't tell me much of what was said. I think she didn't want me entertaining ideas of her best friend. She didn't even mean to tell me in the first place. It just came out without her thinking once after I had sprayed a shot off the wall and ricocheted onto her forehead; and she was busting my chops over it.

Random facial technique aside, after that and for the sake of her walls, I experimented for a while of giving her facials with my cock directly above her face with the tip pointed straight down raining cum on her face. It made the best aftermath to look at; but other positions with my cock not pointed downward feel better to me. Anyone else like to occasionally experiment with that position?

Beyond those two stories with the same girl, to my knowledge nobody around me and a girlfriend has known.

I did some amateur porn back in the 1990s when I lived in California! Some friends and certain members of my family know about that ... but now that I have a VERY responsible job ... I keep my kink fairly private!

:o

Some closest friends knows that we are taking pics and sharing them via the internet, but don't know where. Some of them knows about our facial preferences, no details though. There are even friends, who knows about our interest in group sex, too pity they are not interested :(
It might be fun if they occasionally find our pics, but I believe that they are too polite to notify us about it. In our opinion what we do in bed is our only business, everybody is having sex, or masturbate, there are also lot of other kinks people do, so why we have to be ashame of things we do? If friends find our pics, it will mean nothing but the fact they are watching porn too ;)

My best mate and his wife certainly know :thumbs_up:

I've known my mate for 20+ years now and I found out fairly early that one of his biggest fantasies is to see his wife fucked by lots of men.

His 2nd best fantasy was to see his wife fucked by me lol

Anyway, the conversations over the years usually turned to this fantasy and how it could come about, so we started swapping photos... him and his wife for pics of me and my wife.

He used to joke that most of my pics were blowjob and facial pics.. which they were!!

We got to sharing our videos with each other, then eventually we got to doing live webcam shows for each other... Usually ending up with either of us asking where we should come on our wives.

We've got to the stage of sharing same room fun now with our respective partners and filming each other. Loads of fun!!

Next stage would be swapping I guess.

I've personally kept liking facials private from my personal friends, but I've cum on the face of every girl I've dated so I get the feeling they've all shared those details about me with others.

Same applies with taking pictures...I've done that with every girl I've dated, and my friends to some extent know that, but I'm also known among my close group of friends as "the sexual guy" so it doesn't really phase them. I was having threesomes, swapping partners, and all that stuff as far back as high school. That's my close group though. I don't share those details with people until I've known them for quite a while, and even then, only if it somehow comes up.

When it comes to keeping pictures private, I feel like you really gotta know what you're doing to keep them on personal computers. There's too many private pictures that were not intended to be all over the internet, that are. Any private picture or movie I take goes into a special, password protected file with a high level of encryption attached to it. It's probably overkill, but it helps me ensure I keep the promise that if I'm allowed to take pictures, they wont be shared with anyone else, even unintentionally.

I did have an ex-gf keep a copy of a video we made together on her computer once though. Her computer died and her new bf's brother took the computer and backed up all the data for her....and apparently got real bashful when he gave her the disk back. OOPS! :rofl:

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Originally Posted by izzeps

Do they know you are into facials?

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They know I am. I haven't done it to my new girlfriend, and I'm not sure if or when I will, so there's nothing to tell there. I assume they assume she's taken one if she's dating me.

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Originally Posted by izzeps

How did they find out or why did you tell them?

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I'm an open person.

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing?
I sure as hell hope not. I try to keep my private life private to the best of my ability.

Do they know you are into facials?
It's my little secret. Although I am friends with some ex's who know.

Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?)
I don't as I'm scared of them being seen. A boyfriend took some once, which we reviewed but then I made him delete all evidence. ALL EVIDENCE!

And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them?
N/A

How did they find out or why did you tell them?
N/A

No they don't

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Originally Posted by jameson

Most of our friends and some of our coworkers know we are pervs and some know about our pics and threesome, moresome activities. However, we don't advertise that we post on twitter or FF. We just don't want that level of scrutiny. If they find it themselves, then all good but we don't feel obligated to point them right towards it all. ;)

Xoxo,

J&s

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I would love to follow you guys on Twitter.

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Originally Posted by rockpeterman

I would love to follow you guys on Twitter.

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Please do - it's no secret, here. It's in out "About ME" section of our profile.

Xoxo,

J&s

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Some of my ex-girl friends obviously know about my fetish because we tried it or we talked about it! None of my close friends knows because I never mentioned my fetish.
Years ago I met my first girlfriend and after few glasses of wine she asked me about my fetish „Are you still giving facials? I liked the way you eased me into receiving facials. Have all your Partners swallowed and received facials like I did?“ I was surprised and embarrassed about her extremely private questions but answered truthfully „Yes, they did eventually, most girls swallowed my sperm but some girls I had to ease into receiving facials!“ She replied "I loved swallowing your sperm and my facial experience with you since then most partners were allowed to cover my face. Can you remember jerking-off in front of your mother's mirror because I wanted to see you squirting?“ I remembered it very well because my mother found traces of my sperm on the mirror. She mentioned it to me in passing. I was extremely embarrassed and apologised.

Long time no use of this thread, but now I have a little update:

We had been on a weekend trip with an other couple and shared a campervan. Me and my gf slept in the front part, so our guests could have their privacy in the back.
At the morning we noticed a couple of lightnings comming from their "room".
At first we didn't care about what kind of pictures they might have taken, but some minutes later we went out of the van.
The guy came also out, followed by his gf, who was rushing to the sillcock and washed her face before saying any word (like good morning everyone)
Of course I now knew what happend in there, smiled to my friend and gave him two thumps up. Unfortunately for him his gf noticed that and was not amused that I knew what they did, but after some following jokes we told her that we (me and my gf) are into facials as well. We only talked some minutes about it, but it seems that they are even more into it than we are. Normally it is me suggesting to have some facial-fun, but they seem to have it the other way round.

We also joked about who might cum more or who might have the better pictures, but I think we are to shy to share them (at least our gfs sure don't want to see each other this way)

We keep it secret

I hope I can restart the thread by a new update:

We had some friends over and some of them came with their girl- or boyfriends.
We had a lot of fun, played boardgames and had a lot of drinks. So after a while we got drunk and one of the couples started a little fight over a game...it was not a real fight, but a little trolling each other. After a while the girl suggested a bet between her and her boyfriend.
Normaly our group doesn't talk about their sexlifes, but he said loud and clear: ok,the winner gets licked/a blowjob. She was sitting there like: :winner:
But she agreed in front of us. The lucky bastard won his bet and stood up and asked if they could use a bathroom. The one half of us was shocked, the other half was laughing. We still thought it would be a joke and agreed. One of the others ones said: "pic or it didn't happen" while they went to the bathroom.
While they were gone we discussed wether they fool us or if he really gets a blowjob in our bathroom.
After they returned the guy said again: "pic or it didn't happen"
And our friend just smiled and asked "with cum or without?" While he grabbed his phone his gf shouted "without! Without! Without!"
The group started laughing and he showed us a pic of her sucking his dick...
Of course we needed some minutes laughing and joking around before we could restart our game.
While we were laughing my gf looked at his and just smiled and whispered to her: "face or mouth?" And she answered "a little bit of both" and started to get red.

After all of that we played again for about an hour until the most of us got tired and went to bed (or home). Lying in our bed, Me and my gf talked some minutes about the evening and ended up blowing each other in 69...it didn't take long until I changed postion and kneeled over her to cover her face with every drop I could squeeze out of my dick ;)

This sounds werid,private,I dare not to tell others except us two.

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing? I have 2 friends who know that I LOVE cum in my face.
Do they know you are into facials? My two friends do…and my exes I guess lol
Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?) I've shown my two friends a couple of pictures, but only one has seen my big facial photo
And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them? No, no one knows I'm on here.
How did they find out or why did you tell them? My friends and I have always talked about stuff and I've always been honest about when an ex or a guy I met came in my face or we did something fun. Maybe a bit too honest I guess ha

Fun :D

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Originally Posted by myfaceisyourtarget

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing? I have 2 friends who know that I LOVE cum in my face.
Do they know you are into facials? My two friends do…and my exes I guess lol
Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?) I've shown my two friends a couple of pictures, but only one has seen my big facial photo
And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them? No, no one knows I'm on here.
How did they find out or why did you tell them? My friends and I have always talked about stuff and I've always been honest about when an ex or a guy I met came in my face or we did something fun. Maybe a bit too honest I guess ha

Fun :D

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Great answers I hope that we get to see some of those pics sometime

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Originally Posted by myfaceisyourtarget

I wonder if your friends/colleagues (or even your family?) know what you are doing? I have 2 friends who know that I LOVE cum in my face.
Do they know you are into facials? My two friends do…and my exes I guess lol
Do they know you take pictures? (if you do?) I've shown my two friends a couple of pictures, but only one has seen my big facial photo
And if you are posting pictures do they also know it or have they even seen them? No, no one knows I'm on here.
How did they find out or why did you tell them? My friends and I have always talked about stuff and I've always been honest about when an ex or a guy I met came in my face or we did something fun. Maybe a bit too honest I guess ha

Fun :D

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Did your ex's cum on your face often?
Or in your mouth?
Did they request it or were you asking them to do it?
What position were you in ... was it them standing and you kneeling?
And ... have you ever sucked cock or had a facial in any sort of risky public place?
x

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Originally Posted by winstanley

Did your ex's cum on your face often?
Or in your mouth?
Did they request it or were you asking them to do it?
What position were you in ... was it them standing and you kneeling?
And ... have you ever sucked cock or had a facial in any sort of risky public place?
x

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My ex's came in both my face and in my mouth. I'd say probably face more.
A lot of the time it was dependent on what we were doing. If we were fucking I'd usually "beg" them to cum in my face. If I was just blowing them, I left it up to them.
lol again depends on the situation. A mixture of both.
Yes, in an alley way was probably the most risky. I've done it on a fairly secluded beach, in a park, starbucks bathrooms etc. Nothing too public

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Originally Posted by myfaceisyourtarget

My ex's came in both my face and in my mouth. I'd say probably face more.
A lot of the time it was dependent on what we were doing. If we were fucking I'd usually "beg" them to cum in my face. If I was just blowing them, I left it up to them.
lol again depends on the situation. A mixture of both.
Yes, in an alley way was probably the most risky. I've done it on a fairly secluded beach, in a park, starbucks bathrooms etc. Nothing too public

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Wow - you would probably be the dream girl of most of the FF membership!

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Originally Posted by myfaceisyourtarget

My ex's came in both my face and in my mouth. I'd say probably face more.
A lot of the time it was dependent on what we were doing. If we were fucking I'd usually "beg" them to cum in my face. If I was just blowing them, I left it up to them.
lol again depends on the situation. A mixture of both.
Yes, in an alley way was probably the most risky. I've done it on a fairly secluded beach, in a park, starbucks bathrooms etc. Nothing too public

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With my ex's it's been my choice of birth control!!!:yahoo:

sometimes I show my wife porn pics to my friends

My best friend does because he walked in on me and a lady friend when we roomed together
It was so awkward but it never got too weird b/c hes into it as well with his women
Its no big deal among guys i dont think

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Originally Posted by izzeps

I hope I can restart the thread by a new update:

We had some friends over and some of them came with their girl- or boyfriends.
We had a lot of fun, played boardgames and had a lot of drinks. So after a while we got drunk and one of the couples started a little fight over a game...it was not a real fight, but a little trolling each other. After a while the girl suggested a bet between her and her boyfriend.
Normaly our group doesn't talk about their sexlifes, but he said loud and clear: ok,the winner gets licked/a blowjob. She was sitting there like: :winner:
But she agreed in front of us. The lucky bastard won his bet and stood up and asked if they could use a bathroom. The one half of us was shocked, the other half was laughing. We still thought it would be a joke and agreed. One of the others ones said: "pic or it didn't happen" while they went to the bathroom.
While they were gone we discussed wether they fool us or if he really gets a blowjob in our bathroom.
After they returned the guy said again: "pic or it didn't happen"
And our friend just smiled and asked "with cum or without?" While he grabbed his phone his gf shouted "without! Without! Without!"
The group started laughing and he showed us a pic of her sucking his dick...
Of course we needed some minutes laughing and joking around before we could restart our game.
While we were laughing my gf looked at his and just smiled and whispered to her: "face or mouth?" And she answered "a little bit of both" and started to get red.

After all of that we played again for about an hour until the most of us got tired and went to bed (or home). Lying in our bed, Me and my gf talked some minutes about the evening and ended up blowing each other in 69...it didn't take long until I changed postion and kneeled over her to cover her face with every drop I could squeeze out of my dick ;)

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That is so hot.

My wife had begun telling her friends how she sucks my dick often, let’s me cum all over her face and take pics.

One time one of her friends got some lotion on her face and my wife said, “oh my husband would love to see that and take pics”, the other girl responded that her husbands loves to cum all over her face too and take pics. My wife has shown a few of her friends our bj and facial pics, I just wish I could have been there to see their responses.

Some of my ex-girl friends obviously know my fetish because we did it or at least we talked about it! None of my close friends or family knows about it.
Years ago I met my first girlfriend and after few glasses of wine she asked me surprisingly about my fetish „Are you still giving your girls a facials? I have to admit I liked the way you eased me into receiving facials. Have all your Partners swallowed and received facials, like I did?“ I was surprised about her extremely private questions but answered truthfully „Yes, they did, most girls swallowed my sperm but some girls I had to ease them gently into receiving facials!“ She asked “Can you remember jerking-off in front of your mother's mirror because I wanted to see you squirting?“ I remembered it very well because my mother found traces of my sperm on the mirror. She mentioned it to me in passing. I was extremely embarrassed and I could only apologise.

The short answer is, no. Nobody knows about my thing for facials.
I don’t really have the type of relationships with my friends where we would talk about that.

My best friend of over 20 years once said “I would never ask a woman to do something for me”. So I think it’s clear that they probably aren’t into it.

I wish I could talk about this more. One of things that I really wish I could know is which of my friends (and partners) do it and/or enjoy it

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Some of my ex-girl friends obviously know my fetish because we tried it or we talked about it! None of my close friends or family knows about it but does it really matter?
Years ago I met my first girlfriend and after few glasses of wine she asked me about my fetish „Are you still giving facials? I liked the way you eased me into facials and anal. Have all your Partners swallowed and received facials, like I did?“ I was surprised about her extremely private questions but answered truthfully „Yes, they did, most girls swallowed my sperm but some girls I had to ease gently into receiving facials and anal sex!“ She replied "I loved my first anal experience with you since then most partners were allowed to penetrate my little hole. Can you remember jerking-off in front of your mother's mirror because I wanted to see you squirting?“ I remembered it very well because my mother found traces of my sperm on the mirror. She mentioned it to me in passing. I was extremely embarrassed and apologised.

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Similar situation for me, all my past exes know of course and of course my wife now. I was lucky to have one ex that was REALLY in to cumshots and facials and we are still in contact as friends, just chatting online about life every now and then. She sometimes brings up our shared kink, which is always fun, sometimes jokingly and sometimes to tell be about her relationships (she is a serial dater than hasn't managed to find 'the one' yet unfortunately). Like you I introduced her to facials, but she already had a kink for watching guys jerk off and cum, so we clicked in bed I guess!