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I'm asking as I'm interested in what you think about this. Does masturbation get better with age?
I've always jerked off since I was a teen and it's a great enjoyment in my life but as I get older (42 now) it's seems even more enjoyable. I think about it so much now days and I give in to it at least twice a day. I find that's very enjoyable and too many is too much. I've eaten a full load of my own cum. :)
What do you think boys and girls, does it better with age? I love it! :)
Yes. A world of yes.
I would agree that it does too, and heres why: I started fingering myself when I was 12. I got off a lot of the time, but it was rushed, and sometimes improvised. Specifically, I would use the handle of my hair brush etc. Lastly, I always had to worry about getting caught.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jizza
I am now 25, and I masturbate maybe.. 3-5 times a week. Now when I go to finger myself I take my clothes off, lay down on our bed, and start to slowly rub and finger myself. Sometimes I take the time (depending on how I feel) to push a small vibrator up my ass before I do it. It feels great. Long story short is Im totally stress free, happy, and take my time to build myself up to orgasm. If my husband walks in and catches me its no big deal, we just replace either my fingers or my vibrator with his cock.
So, I think thats why its better now then when I was younger.
This thread needs reviving!.
It does get better with age, I find you learn better technique too, In the last few years I've been able to cum left or right handed, even though I'm a Right Hander, the advantage is I can use my Left and use my right to peruse my Collection of Vids and Pics.
I find too, that I can edge myself more now too, whereas when I was younger, I just wanted to cum, these days, I take my time and make it much more enjoyable. I frequent a Massage Parlour and have a regular young lady I see and she has taught me a few things for when I'm on my own too.
It's good to get responses from both sexes. This forum is so great :)
I would say yes, I am better at making myself feel good, and more willing to take the time to fully enjoy myself.
Two caveats, though. First, as a circumcised man, the head (glans) of my penis has become less sensitive over the years (I'm in my mid-late 40s). I have changed my technique over the years (much more direct stimulation of the glans), so it hasn't had much of an effect on my self-pleasuring.
Second, especially in the last few years, I find that I can get too much of a good thing. When I was younger, this wasn't an issue; I could masturbate as frequently as I wished (generally 1-2 ejaculations a day most days) and it had no effect on my partnered sex life. Now, I find that if I much time at all masturbating (even if I forego orgasm and ejaculation) I can have some difficulty maintaining a full erection that same day with my wife. Lately I have incorporated a cock ring and more self-pleasuring into our sex life to ensure that we both enjoy ourselves.
Fortunately, we are having a bit of a sexual renaissance recently, so the choice between self-pleasure and partnered pleasure is an easy one (basically I save the jacking off for days when I know we won't be having sex). I find that about 36-48 hours is the optimum interval between sexual acts right now--shorter than that, and I may not stay hard the whole time, longer than that and I get sore balls, or I may have some trouble getting aroused initially.
BTW, she has no such challenge enjoying partner sex and masturbation on the same day, and in fact has been much more open and enthusiastic about her masturbation lately. She can come solo with a vibrator and be hungry for me just a little while later. :)
I've been taking care of myself this year. Made changes to my food, exercise and life style and it's made a world of difference to masturbating. My erections are harder and stronger, shoot more cum and it's just amazing! I am loving it! Even my friend had made comment that I'm bigger. She beats me to cum all the time now. :)
I agree with everyone that it does get better! I love to edge to a variety of my favorite pictures and scenes - i know my limits and rarely accidentally go too far while edging. Edging has become more fun to me than the final event these days - and its fun to see how far i can go before I injure myself! Im in my late 40s now and think that its much better than my 20s and 30s.
I do however remember some amazing times when i was a teenager and first starting out with porn and cumming. The tingling and rush is not the same as back then, but I don't think I would trade what I have now for the quick thrill of my teenage jerk off sessions!
I'm in jerk off heaven of late. I so look forward till the end of the day to do it. It's pure bliss! :)
From where I'm standing, you are all very fortunate.
For me, it has gotten both better and worse. As I got older, I learned to edge very well so I have a massive amount of control both with myself and someone else. On the other hand, I don't get the same thrill or good feelings out of masturbation that I did when I was younger. I used to do it 3 times a day, but now I do it once a day because "why not". In reality, I only feel like I *need* to do it only once or twice a week. There's nothing quite like that need or urge. I don't know if it's because I've over-exposed myself to porn or if it's because of a personality change, but I do miss the amount of enjoyment I used to get from jerking off.
I changed my life style. I've never eaten so well in my life. Lot's of vege's with each meal, even for breakfast. Also not over doing exercise but doing enough, targeted weights and cardio. Doing this I feel like my body is turned up to 11 and I'm 44 yo. It's having a massive impact on my life overall and the improvement in masturbating is a really nice bonus. :)
Much better. I find that I concentrate more on the means rather than the end. Much more fun and a better load