What do you think about a blowjob or facial cumshot with tied-up hands

Hello!
I would like to ask what you think about a woman giving a blowjob or receiving a facial with tied-up hands. I have to admit that I always liked to see a girl or woman being lightly tied up. I am not into rough stuff or extreme bondage tough and I have never been sexually active with a girl or woman that had been tied or restricted in any way.

At a lull at work I had a nice talk with a young co-worker. He is a very good looking, tall, handsome and strong ladies’ man who could control or overwhelm most people by sheer strength. Anyway he is a very kind and soft-spoken man treating his girlfriends like princesses. His current girlfriend is very pretty, but quite posh and spoiled and not always easy to get along with. After giving him a hard time last Statuary in the company of some good friends they had an argument and he told her that he’d almost like to split-up. She didn’t want that and offered that he could choose some kind of sexual activity to make-up for the hassle.

She is rarely giving blowjobs and normally using them as a reward or means to get something she likes, so he asked her to allow him use his handcuffs on her while she was giving him a blowjob.
He told me he normally does not like to tie or restrict a woman during sex as he wants her to be really active, using all her skills and her hands, but he thought this would be a good chance to try his handcuffs on a woman he loves and respects for the first time. As some may know it is not always easy to come when the girl is only using her mouth, but not her hands.

He handcuffed her with her hands on her back and pulled down her summer dress a little just to expose her breasts, then made her kneel down (something she does not like as well). He told me that he was hard instantly by looking at his exposed girlfriend kneeling in front of him with her hands on her back and by the fact that she obviously seemed to be not fully comfortable with the situation.

He also told me that it was one of the best blowjobs, although there were no hands used, and that he had his hands on her head, even pushing his cock farther down her throat than normal. It didn’t take long and he was ready to cum. Despite the fact that they had agreed for him not to come on her face but her chest, he blew his load on her face and hair by intent, adding a lot to his joy and her misery.
He told me that he is not sure now how their relationship may develop or if she may split-up, but that it felt great to show her that he can be in charge if he wants to.

I can’t swear that the story is true, but I don’t doubt it. He is just not the kind of guy who is making-up stories about his sex life. I would like to hear what you think about tied-up blowjobs and facials and maybe even hear about your experiences.

I'm with you in that I like "light" bondage, but nothing too rough. I don't enjoy if the girl seems to hate it. Good light bondage keeps things comfortable and focuses on two things in my mind: 1) a respectful shift in power, and 2) it is aesthetically pleasing. So as long as those criteria are met, I love the idea of a tied up blowjob. I'd stand back and masturbate for awhile, then fuck her mouth for awhile, then touch her body, then decide where my load goes.

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Originally Posted by The Rocks

I'm with you in that I like "light" bondage, but nothing too rough. I don't enjoy if the girl seems to hate it. Good light bondage keeps things comfortable and focuses on two things in my mind: 1) a respectful shift in power, and 2) it is aesthetically pleasing. So as long as those criteria are met, I love the idea of a tied up blowjob. I'd stand back and masturbate for awhile, then fuck her mouth for awhile, then touch her body, then decide where my load goes.

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Agree 100% with you on this! i am uncomfortable with anything that even implies a lack of consent on the part of the woman, but other than that it sounds hot!

Another vote for light bondage. I'm more into psychological submission than physical; the former is more powerful than the latter.

I prefer a slut on her knees, hands behind back (whether cuffed or not) or on my thighs while I'm fucking her face. I prefer "yes sir" over rope dresses any day.

"Are you ready for my cum, whore?"
"Yes sir"

That's how I like it done.

Your coworker is a rapist and I hope he gets hit by a bus.

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Originally Posted by WarmBlanket

Your coworker is a rapist and I hope he gets hit by a bus.

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I hear you and I understand and respect your point. Your comment made me think.

Rape is a f…ing no-go.

It is a thin line when consensual but disliked action, power games or submission start to become rape. Please don’t get me wrong: I never meant to excuse or even promote non-consensual sex or even rape.

As far as I know my co-worker I am quite sure he would have stopped at the moment his girlfriend would have said “no” or “stop” or if he had realized that it was too much of dislike for her.

But maybe that is the danger with this kind of action that is or seems consensual at the start: To realize where the red line is and not to cross it in the heat of the action.

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Originally Posted by Gunslinger-Mike

Hello!
I would like to ask what you think about a woman giving a blowjob or receiving a facial with tied-up hands. I have to admit that I always liked to see a girl or woman being lightly tied up. I am not into rough stuff or extreme bondage tough and I have never been sexually active with a girl or woman that had been tied or restricted in any way.

At a lull at work I had a nice talk with a young co-worker. He is a very good looking, tall, handsome and strong ladies’ man who could control or overwhelm most people by sheer strength. Anyway he is a very kind and soft-spoken man treating his girlfriends like princesses. His current girlfriend is very pretty, but quite posh and spoiled and not always easy to get along with. After giving him a hard time last Statuary in the company of some good friends they had an argument and he told her that he’d almost like to split-up. She didn’t want that and offered that he could choose some kind of sexual activity to make-up for the hassle.

She is rarely giving blowjobs and normally using them as a reward or means to get something she likes, so he asked her to allow him use his handcuffs on her while she was giving him a blowjob.
He told me he normally does not like to tie or restrict a woman during sex as he wants her to be really active, using all her skills and her hands, but he thought this would be a good chance to try his handcuffs on a woman he loves and respects for the first time. As some may know it is not always easy to come when the girl is only using her mouth, but not her hands.

He handcuffed her with her hands on her back and pulled down her summer dress a little just to expose her breasts, then made her kneel down (something she does not like as well). He told me that he was hard instantly by looking at his exposed girlfriend kneeling in front of him with her hands on her back and by the fact that she obviously seemed to be not fully comfortable with the situation.

He also told me that it was one of the best blowjobs, although there were no hands used, and that he had his hands on her head, even pushing his cock farther down her throat than normal. It didn’t take long and he was ready to cum. Despite the fact that they had agreed for him not to come on her face but her chest, he blew his load on her face and hair by intent, adding a lot to his joy and her misery.
He told me that he is not sure now how their relationship may develop or if she may split-up, but that it felt great to show her that he can be in charge if he wants to.

I can’t swear that the story is true, but I don’t doubt it. He is just not the kind of guy who is making-up stories about his sex life. I would like to hear what you think about tied-up blowjobs and facials and maybe even hear about your experiences.

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If she agrees to have her hands handcuffed behind her back then unless stated otherwise I would assume her face is mine to use as I wish. It is a way for the woman to be treated like a slut without her having to admit she is one. If you use her in a way others might find abusive she has no shame in enjoying it even if seen to disapprove of it. There should also always be a safe word which you should not go beyond.

What do you think about kneeling in front of a man?

I always liked and enjoyed the sight of a nice woman kneeling in front of a man, worshipping his cock. It was also a big turn-on when she made eye-contact, looking up.

Sadly my last two girlfriends really didn’t like that and refused to do it. Both said it wouldn’t be a comfortable position, hurting her knees (I offered to use a pillow of course) and even worse, would be humiliating and degrading.
One put it point-blank: I am not your mistress, we are on par and what is wrong with your f…ing mind wanting me to kneel in front of you, humiliating me?

I told her that I didn’t mean to humiliate her at all, but that I couldn’t really explain it, just that it would be a very sexy sight and feeling for me.

I talked about it with a woman I went to school together many years ago, a long time good friend. She said that she has found that position not always comfortable, but practical, and that she had often realized that men enjoyed it a lot so she felt okay. She said she could be submissive but still in control if done the right way, but there would be a new breed of girls and women today, maybe started from all that “me too debate”, and that everything has to be politically correct these days, even a blowjob.

I must have looked at her like she just jumped down from a wall on Mars when she said. "I would kneel down in front of you righthere and give you a blowjob right now if it wouldn't ruin our long-time friendship". We poured another drink and changed the subject, talking about my work and her teenage kids.

Kneeling before is one of my biggest turn-ons, to be frank.
(To do and have done.)

Having them kneel is a requirement for me. I usually start by telling them to drop down, then "open."

Man can only resist so much temptation and these 2 go beyond that limit.

I must say I’m not keen on my wife kneeling in front of me. The whole power play aspect has never done it for me and logistically there’s other ways I think are more comfortable to have a blow job or come.

That being said, my wife is quite into giving away the control and quite often will have me to the side of her head and give me an amazing blowjob without using her hands. Allowing either my pulling her hair or thrusts to set the pace. I’ve also had one of the best cumshots in my life by just resting my cock on her head and her licking the shaft or my balls to make me explode all over her.
There’s definitely something to be said for no hands I think. However there is an aspect to them stroking it out that suggests they want it more, which has its own plusses.