Forum behavior regarding women here

[jzzr]

This is a note to the guys on here about contacting female FF members, whether via PM, IM, email, or in FF Chat*.

FF is incredibly lucky to have not only lurking, but active, vocal, intelligent, cum-loving female members. This is a pretty rare thing for a porn forum - usually if girls like porn they keep it to themselves, and tend not to go for something as allegedly male-oriented as facial cumshots.

You should refrain from being rude or abusive to any FF member (part of the official rules). But I've been getting complaints from female members about borderline harassment from various male users. So here's a few things to remember:

1. Just because a woman is on FF doesn't mean she's looking for sex.
There are several happily married, non-swinging women here who just like to enhance their sex life by browsing and chatting about sex. Even if they're swingers or single, that still just means they're just here looking to share their mutual sexual interest - not necessarily get a facial from a stranger. Sure, they might want that eventually...but don't assume they are.

2. Just because a woman goes in the FF Chat doesn't mean she wants to "Cyber".
Some people in Chat just like to Chat...sometimes not even about sex. Sure, some women enter Chat just as horny as the next guy, wanting to get worked up with some sex talk. But not everyone goes from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds. The first or second thing to say to a female member in FF Chat should not be "im hard and jerkin right now can i cum on your face?" Especially if they don't know you at all. That kind of thing is really off-putting and can drive women away from even entering Chat.

3. Just as in the real world...NO (or no response) MEANS NO
You can't fault a guy for trying...once. But if you've approached a female FF member and they've ignored you or said "not interested", that's the end of it. Continued contact would be considered harassment and members will contact a Mod or Admin about it.

As a Mod here, I want this place to be cool for both men and women. Without men, there would be no cumshots. But without women, there would be no facials.

*Please note we do not have Chat feature anymore but the same rules apply when contacting OR discussing women.

[sockmess]

As a Mod here, I want this place to be cool for both men and women. Without men, there would be no cumshots. But without women, there would be no facials.

Not to bring humor in this situation, but you can still have facials without women... Not that i would want to be a part of that though.

[jzzr]

Not to bring humor in this situation, but you can still have facials without women... Not that i would want to be a part of that though.

Yeah I figured someone would be smart and point that out.
But the male facials on this site are minimal, and not what drives 99% of the membership here.

Besides, as far as I know, facials are not such a big deal in Gay porn.

[carolneb]

This is a note to the guys on here about contacting female FF members, whether via PM, IM, email, or in FF Chat.

FF is incredibly lucky to have not only lurking, but active, vocal, intelligent, cum-loving female members. This is a pretty rare thing for a porn forum - usually if girls like porn they keep it to themselves, and tend not to go for something as allegedly male-oriented as facial cumshots.

You should refrain from being rude or abusive to any FF member (part of the official rules). But I've been getting complaints from female members about borderline harassment from various male users. So here's a few things to remember:

1. Just because a woman is on FF doesn't mean she's looking for sex.
There are several happily married, non-swinging women here who just like to enhance their sex life by browsing and chatting about sex. Even if they're swingers or single, that still just means they're just here looking to share their mutual sexual interest - not necessarily get a facial from a stranger. Sure, they might want that eventually...but don't assume they are.

2. Just because a woman goes in the FF Chat doesn't mean she wants to "Cyber".
Some people in Chat just like to Chat...sometimes not even about sex. Sure, some women enter Chat just as horny as the next guy, wanting to get worked up with some sex talk. But not everyone goes from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds. The first or second thing to say to a female member in FF Chat should not be "im hard and jerkin right now can i cum on your face?" Especially if they don't know you at all. That kind of thing is really off-putting and can drive women away from even entering Chat.

3. Just as in the real world...NO (or no response) MEANS NO
You can't fault a guy for trying...once. But if you've approached a female FF member and they've ignored you or said "not interested", that's the end of it. Continued contact would be considered harassment and members will contact a Mod or Admin about it.

As a Mod here, I want this place to be cool for both men and women. Without men, there would be no cumshots. But without women, there would be no facials.

Hear, hear! Just be polite please...

[Brian1453]

It is truly a rare find indeed to have women actively involved in posting and chatting in a forum like this one. One of my favorite things to do here is to see what they have contributed. Whether it is posting, answering some of the questionaires here, or sharing their ideas and thoughts, they make this forum MUCH more interesting! So I have to agree completely with Jzzr. We all need to be nice to the ladies who are brightening our spot of the net! So be nice

[jzzr]

Just bumping this topic as we've had a bunch of female members join lately. Remember to treat ALL members with respect, but especially the women. Without them this is all just a sausage party circle jerk.

[safn1949]

I couldn't agree more,guys good manners are free and should be used a lot,I can never get you guys who talk about women like dogs and then wonder why they don't want anything to do with you,just read some of the comments on the forum.

[SimonKemp]

100% with you on tis jzzr. Well done for posting this thread!

[KimmieTommy]

Good job Jzzr. Not that we have had any problem on this forum so far, but we encounter that kind of behaviour on our personnal blog, since we also got private chatroom. Thus we completely agree with this point.
Congratulations to you and all moderators for keeping that place appart.

[jzzr]

Just giving the topic a bump since I feel it's an important subject, and I encountered a new female member in Chat last night. Trying to make sure people make her (and others) feel welcome, not put off.