Occasionally women in the US write and ask me about doing porn. I always, always advise against it in this country!

(Unless they are doing their own site) Recently a very interesting woman who knows several of MyPervertedMen wrote me. Two of them had vouched for her and told me that the two of us would probably really like each other. They told me she is for real and not about the money. She asked me a slew of questions. One of them was about doing professional porn in the USA. I advised her against working for anyone! I told her that if she wanted to explore her sexuality and porn, she should do it for herself and only herself and only do what gets her off. I guess she had to find out on her own and she traveled to meet several different companies/agancies a few weeks ago. She wrote me the other day and told me it was a huge mistake. She has never felt so much doubt about herself or her sexual journey. She said she felt dirty and ashamed. She was treated like dirt, advised to get several operations if "she wanted to make it."

She is a beautiful woman with a very nice spirit. I can't imagine what kind of damage the porn people wanted her to do to her body and soul just for money.
The reason I give this advice to anyone who asks is that I have never received an email from or met an American porn industry person who hasn't turned me off. (except for maybe one amateur couple) They are all about the money and the impression I get is that they think of women as disposable cattle and prey upon the weak or the uninformed. When I started my site so many years ago, I was lucky that a very experienced swinger couple gave me the same advice. "If you love sex, stay away from the pro porn industry in the USA!"
That said, I have gotten the general feeling that the European scene is much better. I hope so. I have to admit to being a fan of Annette Schwartz and have seen several other Europeans who seem into it for their own sexual gratification.

Piper