Quote Originally Posted by theoriemeister View Post
lechero: great story, señor! And don't worry about your English; it's better than half the student I teach at the college. I also suspect that the reason she was so relaxed about the facial was the same as your turn-on. She was 'someone else.' Too bad you broke up, but there are other fish in the sea, so to speak.
Maybe you're right: roleplaying and pretending to be someone else may help to break autoimposed boundaries. In fact, in that second reconciliation she asked me to do another thing in that way, but unfortunately we couldn't make it: she asked me to pick her in a bar as if I met her for the first time.

We broke in August but now we are living a strange transition time: we still love each other, so we see almost on a daily basis, although no sex involved. We can't live together, but we can't live apart. So we haven't given each other permission to see other people yet. A part of me wants to try another chance with her. But other part is starting to ask for more action: nothing serious, a frivolous adventure, an only sex relationship, something...

(excuse me for the tone of this answer: I'm perfectly awaere this is not a women magazine's problem page!)