
Originally Posted by
ClaireJay
I get both views. Worries me (not to mention turns me off) when I find guys who are obsessed with punishing women, and degredation is all that turns them on. But I also understand the release for a women from being taken roughly, told what to do, even used.
I think we're sometimes so conditioned to believe that sex is bad or sinful that it can be hard to let go, and a little rough treatment absolves us of that responsibility. That goes for bondage, submission, some role play, etc etc.