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Hey, I'm a new guy here because I've been lurking these forums for a while but now I've decided to register and provide some input.
The secret to cum kissing with your girlfriend is to learn how to "edge".
A lot of people know edging as where you keep bringing yourself to the point of an orgasm and then stopping any stimulation, and then eventually have a full-blown orgasm. This kind of edging is a little different.
Edging is where you bring yourself almost to the point of a full-on orgasm, so that you ejaculate and have a small orgasm without yet having a refractory period(where your dick becomes ultra-sensitive and you lose sexual interest for a short while). The refractory period seems to be what prevents a lot of you guys from having a really good cum kissing experience.
The hard part about edging is that you have to train yourself to be able to do it normally. You can either train yourself through real sex or masturbation, but all you need to do is to try to bring yourself as close to orgasm as possible without having a full-on orgasm so that you can cum/ejaculate. This requires experimenting and trying to figure out how and when to slow down the stimulation to your cock. Pretty much, when you're jerking off, you do this by stopping or slowing down your stimulation just before you cum. If you can do this properly, then you will be able to cum and just keep going at what you're doing.
You probably won't be able to do it at first, but you just have to keep trying and practicing. It's not like trying to shoot further, orgasming without cumming, or making your dick longer, or anything like that; I'm pretty certain that anybody can do it with practice. I'm no sex god, but it was pretty accomplish-able for me at least.
What are the benefits? Well once you are able to do it, it's the best opportunity to try eating/playing with your own cum because you will still be horny and willing, and you can still get off on it too! And we all know that cum is the best lube there is, so when you are having sex you can cum and use that fresh cum as lube and keep on going! And yes, you can cum in/on your girlfriend and make out with the cum, and enjoy it!
Since I've learned how to edge, I started out being able to ejaculate 2 - 3 times while fucking. After doing this for a while, I've been able to cum 6 - 7 times before having the grand-finale full-on orgasm! My girlfriend absolutely loves it, and she loves the feel of the loads of warm cum squishing in/on her pussy when we fuck.
FURTHER NOTES
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- Since you can practice this kind of edging with either sex or masturbation, you might find either way more difficult than the other. I can ejaculate multiple times when masturbating, but for some reason it's much easier to do it when having sex and I have no idea why. It could be because sex feels better but I would have thought that I'd cum fewer times if it felt that good. So one or the other might work better for you.
- At first, doing this won't feel quite as good as a full orgasm. But once being able to cum multiple times becomes second-nature to you, you will be doing it with ease and it will feel very pleasurable.
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