Its very intensely personal....

i love the eye contact

I am not into it if its presented as degrading for me that isnt what its about

beyond that I cant tell you where the "fetish" aspect comes from nor can anyone else. There is no real data that supports the origins of a fetish except in one case and thats the case of "feeders" for most people with that fetish they know exactly when and where it originated (Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory)

I have done a LOT of research into this are because the origins of fetishes are fascinating to me.

turns out theres almost no data to suggest any particular origin or set of origins except as noted