Question: How "normal" is it for you to shoot your own porn?

[kalvin45]

This is a question more so for couples on the forum. How often do you shoot porn in your sex life? And I'm not talking about if you post to make money - it's more for kink or personal use.

I've been with my wife for a total of 25 years and we've got pictures and videos dating back about 18 years. We used to shoot a lot more porn, but now it's only a few times a year. So how about all of you? Is it 100% of your sex life or just a once in a while thing? Do you find things taper of with time or do you find yourself shooting more porn?

I'm just interested in everyone's feedback.

[KingCheeser]

Interesting topic! I've had two long term relationships where we made porn for our own consumption. The first of these two, we were together two and a half years, and made porn at least twice a month, sometimes more. Almost the entirety of our porn was her eating my ass or taking facials. How often we made porn was pretty steady.

The second one is my current girlfriend. We've been together almost 3 years. We made a ton of porn early on; and had much more "porn sex" in the first year and a half. I don't cum on her face nearly as often anymore. She takes facials to make me happy, but doesn't particularly enjoy them; so she's less and less in the mood to say yes. But she still lets me video them. But we probably make porn one night every 3-4 months now. Relationships have ebbs and flows, and in this case our porn output definitely peaked during our "honeymoon" period when we first started dating for the first year and a half. I definitely could make porn more often if I wanted to; but I reckon it just fades a little bit with time; which feeds into what kalvin45 said in his original post.

All the other women I made porn with were either relationships or fuck buddies that lasted in the 6 month range; which meant we frequently made porn, but weren't together long enough to know how regularly we'd continue to do it.

[BCSMASTER]

I think a lot of couples have fun on camera. My wife and I love it. That's her in my profile pic. I've also taken pics of a few ex girl friends as well.

[bluedancer]

We have been married 22 years now, together a few years longer (we are 47 and 46). Over our entire relationship we have made our own porn pics and videos, almost all with facials. I would say we have averaged shooting pics and vid maybe 75-80% of the time we fuck, although lately that has slowed down a bit.

[kalvin45]

Thanks for the feedback.

I was combing through my external hard drive and was shocked at how often we would sometimes shoot scenes. Most of them are blowjob/facial scenes as my wife isn't really keen on sex scenes. She likes to be eccentric and play around when she gives a blowjob but hates to act during sex. For a few years we were doing high production (special lights, tripod, etc.) scenes every two weeks or so. A lot of it has to do with how each of us feels about our appearance. She was gym rat for a long time, but has eased off the past few years. She's less inclined to be on camera just because she doesn't feel confident. She'll do it, but there's no joy in her blowjob. I feel bad so I don't press her for it any more.

[KingCheeser]

That's been the majority of women I've been with, too, kalvin. Most of mine don't mind a blowjob/rimjob/facial on video; but don't like "acting" for the camera during sex. Or they find the camera a distraction because they don't like to be in their own head/self conscious while fucking.