Huge cock or huge load?

[buckeye1974]

I have a decent sized cock & shoot big loads, but if I had to choose only 1, I would prefer to have a big cock because all women respect a big cock, but only a few appreciate big loads.

Good responses all!

This is my thought as well. Most women don't want facials or cum on them, so guys will mostly be cumming into condoms. This way, the women has no idea how big his load is and probably don't care.

If a woman likes to swallow, most don't want it pouring into their mouths or down their throat. (I said most)

So, with a high percentage of cum being shot into condoms, a guy's talent for blowing an obscene load gets hidden. If he has an average to below-average cock, that sucks. Kind of like the guy that has the hidden ability to be the world's greatest golfer, but doesn't realize it since he has never played golf!

A huge cock, on the other hand, is going to be seen and felt by each partner the guy has encounters with. You never hear a girl say, "He shoots a huge load." You will often hear a girl say, "He has a big dick."

Instant respect is his, and all the women wonder what "it" looks like.

[Brian1453]

I would pass on both. I am six inches and I would not mind another inch or two, but I would not want a "huge" cock. For most women it would be more of a WOW factor but not really something to play with. For many women it would mean no deep, hard fucking, no deep blowjobs, and just forget all about anything close to deep-throating. And anal? Most women would probably kick you out for even thinking they would take that up the ass! So it might be good for making porn and getting random women interested, but it would certainly come with a frustrating sexual cost with most women. So not for me.

Same thing with a huge facial. If I prepare I still have a decent cum that shows up well in pics and vids. If you have a monster amount it would most likely turn off many women. So fewer CIM, fewer swallows, fewer facials. None of which would appeal to me.

[azriel15]

^ I have not thought about these concepts regarding this 'juxtaposition'. Well stated, Brian.

Although, even if you do not blow massive torrents that would scare away the masses of females. I suppose it would be nice to have the occasional firehose obliteration! ...just when she is comfortable and not concerned about getting too messy...the beast is unleashed!

Anyway, thanks for the interesting thoughts there.

az

[buckeye1974]

I would pass on both. I am six inches and I would not mind another inch or two, but I would not want a "huge" cock. For most women it would be more of a WOW factor but not really something to play with. For many women it would mean no deep, hard fucking, no deep blowjobs, and just forget all about anything close to deep-throating. And anal? Most women would probably kick you out for even thinking they would take that up the ass! So it might be good for making porn and getting random women interested, but it would certainly come with a frustrating sexual cost with most women. So not for me.

Same thing with a huge facial. If I prepare I still have a decent cum that shows up well in pics and vids. If you have a monster amount it would most likely turn off many women. So fewer CIM, fewer swallows, fewer facials. None of which would appeal to me.

Ok. You are content with being "average" in both situations. Good for you. With a huge cock one would definitely be on the prowl for a freak...a girl that is a "size queen" and and likes the challenge the big dick brings with it. I, for one, would feel a bit defeated if a chick was able to totally deep throat my average cock. I would want her to gag and spit while she tried to get me down her throat. A "ho-hum" deep throat would make me wonder if she wouldn't enjoy something a little bigger, no matter what she said...

[kushiefkr]

Whatcha think?

Good size? Need more? Too big?

Ladies...your opinion?

[Wen Kitten]

I say that although size provides more pleasure it can also cause pain so it depends on the girl, aside from that, the size doesn't matter as long as the guy knows how to move.

Now from the load perspective, I would go for a huge load

[SlamminSammy]

I have a decent sized cock & shoot big loads, but if I had to choose only 1, I would prefer to have a big cock because all women respect a big cock, but only a few appreciate big loads.

Just to follow up, a woman I have given several great facials to recently told me that she showed a pic of her after one of my facials to her girlfriends at a party & while they were all impressed with my load, they all wanted to see & know how big my cock is. I rest my case. Haha

[window2010]

Well, it's not that easy to answer!
But from experience, girls seem to like a thicker cock...
...and for a facial, the thought alone that a guy jerks off into their face exites them!
Therefore the question of how much sperm becomes actually secondary!
Too much sperm could be also a complete turn off as well!
Facialising a girl is very fine balanced act! But getting older I would like to have more sperm again…

[Lexi1993]

personally i'd rather a guy shoot bigger loads than have a bigger cock if i had to choose between the two but i prefer both at the same time lol

[fudge]

A bit of both...

As size goes, i prefer somewhat bigger since they just feel better in my mouth. I also like the challenge of deepthroating a bigger dick (as long as it's reasonably possible, that is)

Same with the load. If it's too small, it does't really feel worth it. And as facials go, i want to feel it when i get cummed on, and a few dribbles won't do. A couple of really good spurts and a lot of precum goes a looong way :-D