
Originally Posted by
acktorino
Orca, I must shamefully admit that the first time it happened while she was spleeping was not planned and the next morning she was not happy. I had been drinking and she didn't want to be intimate, I stood over her thinking how much I wanted her and just started touching myself and before I knew it I was about to "blow my load." I had a split second and started to move away but that little "demon" that sometimes rides on our shoulder was yelling in my ear,"Hey man you told her what you needed and she went to sleep instead, so show her what happens!" In one sense it was a selfish and stupid decision but in the end it lead to discussions and understanding and more "sleep play" in the future.