I recognised a girl working at a dance club as she lived near me, chatted with her and she was a full time student who had qualifications in dance and saw it as a good way to make money doing something she enjoyed and with no real hassle, strippers no doubt like to see regulars and will probably text them too as phones could be all in with the club, but this could be her doing it on her own back and quite innocent as well and she woman might just like you, keep your wits about you and only time will see.