Exactly!
I think we've jumped over a big hurdle. My wife has always performed great in the bedroom but is still a little timid on certain things, she doesn't talk much during sex and doesn't really give me any direction unless it hurts or she can't breathe or something. But after I came she got a little giggly and kind of cracked herself up rubbing my cum on her. I told her the way she asked for it drove me crazy and the way she looked afterwards was really erotic and sexy.
Maybe one day I'll be able to snap a few pics, but one step at a time.