Quote Originally Posted by southernexport View Post
Definitely option 1 when I'm giving my wife a facial or a body shot. It somehow adds to her submissiveness in the whole situation and allows me to appreciate the whole before and after element a lot more.
I agree.

Visually and mentally it's much better to be jerking myself off and have her kneeling below me while waiting for my sticky manhood to blast her in the face. Although like I said earlier, I prefer the PHYSICAL FEELING of waiting to the last possible second and then pull out and shoot my load. It also PHYSICALLY FEELS better for her to jerk my cock off rather than doing it myself. But again, those methods aren't as visually and mentally stimulating. It's such a conundrum!