That's interesting... I like to drink good wines with my new girlfriend, and playing with it pouring it allover her body or drinking it directly from her mouth. And now, maybe I've found a new playful utility for the empty bottles we left...
I've read your last messages regarding your comment about moving to Europe because you find very difficult to be as libertine as you want there at the States. I don't want to spoil your illusions, but I'm from a european country (Spain) and I must say that here you probably will find the same problems. It's what we call here "double moral": we can be really pervert privately, but under the society's eyes we have to be "formal" and "polite". Spain has the problem of being very catholic, the Church has a great power here, so sexual matters are not seen in a good way (even though we are known for heavy partying!). I think the same problems are found in Southern countries, due the catholical influence. But, as far as I know, protestant countries are not better: british are very fond of saving appearances too. Summarizing: you also have to be discreet here in Europe!