Most of the time for me , it's better to go high, especially if you want to take pictures. Eventually it all leaks down ! My wife knows she has to pose for pics & not just clean up right away , so a lot of times her entire face ends up glistening after 30 secs to a minute. Makes for awesome pics. If your girl is cool & lets you use your cock to spread it all over, then it really doesn't matter as much.