I've never been on a swingers club, so I don't really know how is the "mood" there. But it must be quite embarrassing to be ridicule in a place like that, in which people are supposed to be more difficult to offend! From a perverse point of view... that guy had certain merit!
Anyway, I'd only dare to use dirty talking with a woman with whom I had great confidence, or who explicitly said me to do so. The rest of the time, I'm member of the boring lovers' club: you know, the ones who only say "Yes, baby", "Oooohh", and "I like it".
